Lurker > JuanCarlos1

They lose novelty as well. Theres like a rule that shows shouldnt go last the 7th season cause they star to overstay their welcome.

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Why the dip though? And are we sure its the bottom?

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You live in the wrong place.

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Lion King has been the biggest offender so far mainly because real lions cant emote, movie is pretty much monochromatic (Savannah color) and Scars be prepared got cut short.

Aladdin was pretty decent, and while Will Smith did a decent job his singing felt held down compared to the original...plus once again all creativity and magic has to be dumbed down due to realistic setting.

In that regard I guess Beauty and the beast and jungle book were much more successful....with jungle book being my favorite. Looking forward to Mulan but Im not going to rate it based on the actors opinions of home politics or the current price of admission...which is the price youd pay in most places for just 2 or 3 people and its an actual discount for families.

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Wait....all this because Trump doesnt want to pay 3 millions?

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Doe posted...

gringo shit

You mean woke gringo Hispanic shit. English doesnt have masculine or feminine versions for nouns by just changing the last vowel. Im mostly liberal, but I do find it a bit annoying.

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thronedfire2 posted...

Whos the guy who made a topic last week about fighting with his wife because they werent having sex? >_>

Lmao. I can produce proof of life of my wife...plus wrong state....and age.

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Ok Mr Shamalayan

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My in laws do...but theyve done since they were young. I think it might be a case of that since it's legal we now have actual data of who smokes.

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Ah...because a black handgun is obviously more dangerous even just by itself.

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Oh oh...Picasso might get canceled then!

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Eliza-Schuyler posted...

actually im considering getting something like this
(thats benee btw listen to her albums they are life changing)

If Bjork and Billie Eilish had a baby.

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Romulox28 posted...

Crap like this is why trump will win in November

Nah...most Americans have shown to be no better than Romans enjoying death in the coliseums. They like a spectacle no matter how low brow.

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Obstacle2 posted...

Any updates TC

Well....touchdown! XD

Actually wrote to her some of the down to earth advise from here throughout the day and while initially received some of the usual defensiveness from her side, she took it down a notch and we settled on going to therapy. Something seems to have worked cause she was the one who initiated sex after we got into bed..and no, it didnt feel forced.

So thanks CE? lmao

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Zanzenburger posted...

It is alarming how many times cheating has been brought up as a solution to this problem. I mean, you do you, but if you'd like to take a more moral path, here are some suggestions.

First, and I cannot express this enough, marriage counseling is absolutely necessary here. It seems you have already tried on your own and she gets defensive. The issue is more on her than on you now (based on what you've shared). A marriage counselor can give her a more neutral third party opinion and likely support you if you've been doing things right. But I get not everyone can afford a marriage counselor (or even convince the other couple to go).

My wife and I have gone through dry spells as well. There have been times I just didn't want it, and times she didn't want it. It can happen for a multitude of reasons, from stress, fatigue, to hormonal problems as others have stated. One suggestion I may recommend is try some foreplay, but without the expectation of sex. Spoon her, touch her seductively, tell her she's beautiful right before bed. I think the other user was right in that she might be self conscious about her weight gain and that affects her sex drive. There was a time when my wife was depressed due to her job being terrible. She wasn't wanting it either. Little romantic things like that in the bedroom, without pressuring her into sex, really helped. It made her feel special. I've learned that a lot of times women don't want full on sex as much as men do, but they do want the intimacy that comes with sex. Give her that intimacy, let her feel good, and she's more likely to give you sex. Probably every other time I did this, she'd get turned on enough that we'd go all the way. Eventually, as her mental health started getting better, she would initiate it herself. Now we're doing just fine. Our sex life was active even when we fostered three difficult toddlers for a year.

If it truly is hormonal, the above may not work. Medication could help. She could have cysts in her ovaries, which affect sex drive. Or thyroid problems. or IBS. There are so many conditions that affect a woman's sex drives and it can make them self-conscious and defensive. There are treatments for this that really help, but she would need to be willing to see a doctor. It's a good idea to see one anyways, sex-related or not. <_<

If none of that seems to work, then I think the problem is more than just sex-related. At that point there is a completely lack of intimacy in your marriage, and if she refuses to even try, then there are deeper-rooted issues. It's up to you at that point if you think the marriage is worth saving or if it's time to call it quits. Fortunately, if you have documented evidence of going to therapists and doing what you can to help her, it will make the divorce easier on you if it comes down to that as judges like to see which party tried harder to make it work.

It's true that marriage isn't easy. It requires a level of maintenance that you don't have to worry about when single or simply dating. For some people, marriage is just not worth the amount of work required to keep it healthy. Personally, the rewards of having a spouse vastly outweigh the work required to keep them happy and your relationship healthy. To have that one person that knows you inside out, that supports you through your toughest times and you with them, to cheer on you during your victories and hate on your enemies for you even though they don't know them. It's amazing. I can't imagine myself in a life without my wife. We have both boosted each other up and have both picked each other up from a dark place at some points in our lives. I just felt I needed to say that because this whole topic puts marriage in such a negative light that it's easy to forget why people do it in the first place.

Hey, appreciate the effort here. That's great advise and the "most correct" path to take here.

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Interesting...dont most animals have a sense of avoiding big things coming their way? That looks just like plan suicide.

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oh great...nothing better than watching the devils music right before going to bed and having to turn off the lights of the whole house >_>

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This is getting old...fkn morons. A bit funny seeing him get so worked. Looked like he was about to get a heart attack. America you need some mental health help.

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Tequilawhatitdo posted...

has she gotten her hormones checked?

She does have thyroid problems.

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Austin_Era_II posted...

You can get 50/50 custody but if you make more than her you still pay for child support. I'm glad I didn't have a 3rd child with her. I'd be broke.

Huh, she DOES make slightly more than I do, especially after her promotion. PLUS they're all in my company's health insurance which gives her an even higher take home pay. Gotta see how that works out. Obviously whatever happens Ill support my kid. I dont want to sell the house....took so much damn work and effort to get it. Id refinance it to take advantage of the lower rates (my actual is 7 apr) to save a few hundreds there. Yes...Ive given this a lot of thought already. Think if I made a bit more money Id go straight to divorce.There are some other things from her I dislike.

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Oh boy....nothing worse than a Miami living, Cuban Trump supporter.

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ChocoboMogALT posted...

Dang. Sounds like you need to have that conversation.
"Sex isn't just fun for me, it's something my body craves, it's a biological need. I still have a strong urge for sex X-times a week. What can we do to work on this?"

I tell her that and just dismisses it as an excuse that all men say. I actually live in Puerto Rico. Shouldnt be too costly if we ever get to that. But now shes emotionally blackmailing me that Id be throwing away our family just over sex....we definitely need to go to a marriage counselor.

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Romes187 posted...

your kid is 3?

we have a 2 and a half year old and a 7 month old and the frequency definitely goes down but you just gotta communicate and clean the house and workout and devote that extra energy to something productive.

be a man and rub one out, go learn some python and start making some dough

2 years 11 months here. Yes, Ive tackled all the issues she complained about, but Im also never going to be perfect. I always clean the dishes, painted the garage doors, mixed concrete and filled the holes from the patio, pressure washed everything....then she says oh, thats the stuff you should do anyway as man of the house (cant argue that, right), but that logic seems to only apply to me and not her.

I am actually taking classes online to try and apply for better positions at my job. Takes a few hours from most nights. Im not perfect but I AM trying.


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LookANinja posted...

And then you raise enough of a stink about it to come to an agreement in which sex is scheduled, and she's there like "okay let's just get this over with." And then you get what you want, but not really what you want, and it sucks. Then there she is like "This is what you wanted right?!"

Lol...pretty much...and I hate it. We just had a discussion about all this earlier and she was like "oh I thought maybe tonight we couldve.." arghhhhhh

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Cleo_II posted...

Im sorry shes not taking your needs seriously. Marriage is a two way street. I would suggest marriage counseling before listening to the advice to just cheat.

THIS is my main complaint. I feel shes being VERY dismissive about how I feel. Blames it on silly horny boys and their testosterone.....and that gets me sooo mad.

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I do think that she gaining weight may have something to with it. She doesnt feel as confident about her body and she has such an immature mind about issues like that. No body positive thoughts with her. Probably hates herself for that...I know how she gets.

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Teh_Dr_Phil posted...

You arent owed sex. That is the first thing you need to come to terms with. Second is to talk it out with her in detail. Lay out your thoughts and feelings and go from there. Its her vagina, not yours. Youre only going to piss her off more if you act like its something youre owed or that you deserve.

Yes, I totally get that and I respect itm but it brings us to the point that maybe shes not that into me anymore. I dont feel reciprocated love wise. Plus I am also entitled to get what I want out of a relationship where Im giving a lot from myself or at least get to an agreement.

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ChocoboMogALT posted...

Did you talk about how much sex you want/need before you got married?

It was a non issue back then. Hell I'll settle for once a week.
ncsonic posted...

She's very in the wrong if she can't return the love

I tell her something along these lines. She says nothing by the side and...I believe her. Shes just asexual, giving all her attention to her job and our kid.

Northlane posted...

Just get a mistress
Everybody does it
No shame in it

Pretty much my friends advice and at this point...I d do it.

TooLateToGoBack posted...

this is a discussion reserved for a marriage counselor, not a GameFAQs message board

I wonder which one is easier and faster to receive feed back from..hmm. Plus theres lots of married ppl here.

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Ever since we've had a kid the frequency obviously dwindled and that is fine. Now 3 years later its gotten worse to once every 2 months or so. I tackled all of the issues she complained about me and bettered my self, but its even worse so that tells me it was all excuses.

Thing is that I don't want to ask or beg for sex and every time I bring it up we just fight with her getting high on the offensive. Telling me that we have it pretty good and that Im giving sex waaay too much importance, that Im going to throw away my family just over sex. I don't want to divorce, because I dont want to lose my kid and I would end up poor paying my own rent, child support...plus I sold my car so that we could have a better family car.

WTF to do? I dont want to live in a sexless marriage and i dont want to end up more miserable being divorced.

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Trump wishing him R.IP. , but not to the other victims shows him actively taking a side...and thats with the white supremacists. No conspiracy theorist that he's racist here when he just showed the whole world his true colors.

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Lmao..good posts. Hell you can be married and you automatically become 2nd or 3rd once kids are in the picture.

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Thank you Al Gore

still donno why

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VTBM posted...

Shit happens

Aside TCs obvious lack of empathy. I remember as a kid on a disney trip my dad lost the tickets to the last 2 parks we had left for 4 people. He had to buy them again and I imagine that mustve put a huge dent on the available money he had for the trip.

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viewmaster_pi posted...

this isn't even a "prank," it's just mean

https://youtu.be/HhiRRPCzrm8

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He's probably mixed, but looks very white...like 70 white to 30 black ratio.

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inloveanddeath0 posted...

I'm more sick of the younger generation just quitting their jobs with little notice. This hurts the department they worked in but they give no care.

Lmao! Why should they care about a company that treats them like just another number? So while I agree it should be common courtesy, they just do it out of spite for the shitty treatment. A few years ago half of the company I worked in jumped ship over to a new company that paid a bit more for the same positions and very few of us actually did the 2 week notice. A lot took pleasure in just quitting their very last day.

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Smackems posted...

Still hot

That Alpha blonde vibe

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Comes to 53 per month. How TF you get to the hundreds? Especially on non luxury cars?

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ThePrinceFish posted...

It's amazing that democrats really tell themselves this lmao

Where's the lie though. Electorate maps shows the south as completely blue right up to before the 1950's.

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tote_all posted...

Sadly, I believe Chiwetel Ejiofor would be one of the best possible recasts.

Damn it, Mordo.

This. They even have the same age.

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Well, they sure are making wanted magic the gathering cards much more expensive than what they should be.

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Poop2 posted...

is she jacking off an imaginary creature?

Looks to be a centaur if Im not mistaken

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DespondentDeity posted...

Limerence dude, I had this with a girl for like 7.5 years, only found out she had felt it too after I confessed, but she was already married by then. Honestly, after I told her, it went away immediately.

After reading what it means...it sounds a bit too extreme for how I feel. Mainly cause Im 32 now and there are no butterflies alive in my stomach that can feel giddy for anyone. Not romantic love...just curiosity for what it was. It was like the laws of attraction when you think of somebody and then you meet with them? Imagine wishing you could meet that person in a specific manner....just to happen 1 week later. And I did try talking to her back then...and it was a disaster. She kept staring into me like what are you waiting for, but I got too nervous and said the stupidest shit ever and she hid away between her friends and me feeling the biggest embarrassment of my life. Then you learn of this persons name through the graduations pamphlet and realizing she studied the very same thing you did and her name was actually right below your name...from the hundreds of people that graduated from the same thing. Its just a lot of coincidences like that throughout the years. I know it looks very weird and maybe creepy, but dammit, its not like Im chasing her or anything. There were years I went without thinking about it.

It just recently came back to mind since I had another encounter recently..and I saw them on OKcupid...and Im too chicken to send a message. Like how the fuck do you even begin that conversation?!?!

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And kinda bump into that person every few years or so even though you dont share any relation through friends, work, nothing. And have never talked to each other, but acknowledge each other's existence through seconds long stares until one chickens out or probably feels creeped out. Ive had this for 15 years now. Even though Im married, Id just like to have a conversation with that person...is that too weird?

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Fuck, man! Im glad I decided to do a colonoscopy.

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SSJGrimReaper posted...

wtf is going on at that place

We know whats going...better question is why higher ups arent being held accountable??

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16 year olds running from the police bc of a scattered party...and you shoot them with no warning just bc they land on your backyard. Its like he was waiting for the chance to use the gun. Thats the problem with many of the gun owners...they eventually want to use them one way or another.

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