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If you think she's strong now, watch out!

https://www.reddit.com/r/funnyvideos/comments/oj2wfo/see_how_dangerous_this_childs_anger_is/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb

Because babies cry all the time? Sometimes you gotta let em cry themselves out.

been gone for a while
congrats on your baby Cleo!!

Put da baby in baby jail

Lol i get it. It has been getting a little easier for.us lately, but i fucking get it.

Couldn't you have waited for him to be done?

This!!! You get your rest, don't feel bad for expecting the father of your child to .... yknow .... be a parent as much as you are.

Honestly it sucks when you have to remind people to do things they should be doing but that's another reason kids aren't for me personally.

"oh I didn't hear the baby :/" ok I'm booking you a hearing screening and moving the crib in your office. "I forgot to change diapers because I was uh rearranging my books by the Dewey decimal system. Yeah huh." okay well the baby has been in the house for months now and didn't get beamed up by the Enterprise in the past 6 hours so.... maybe you need to get checked out for brain damage or something memory related.

I dont think he can now even if he wanted to since Square has stopped selling Physical AND Digital copies of the game for now. I guess the servers are too full currently

Why would any responsible father be playing games while he hears his own child crying a few rooms over and not do anything, especially during early infancy? Not only that, but had the audacity to be upset? Fuck did you think having a kid entailed?

Get the fuck off that game and help out. He shouldn't be needed to be reminded or nudged into helping.

What do you guys think of Elder scrolls online?

if its retail WoW you saved him from a shitty raid and shitty content patch, good on ya

if its TBC classic, most classes can be played with one hand and your baby is probably better than most dps so no biggie.

time for the little one to learn dps rotations

surprised he hasn't jumped over to ff14 like everyone else.

No you didn't.

Damn That is brutal. I would be mad but I would also understand too. Plus, the baby is in his hands too? So many emotions going at once lol

baby might be smarter than most of our DPS. We'll take him.

It's a girl! Now when I say "That's someone's daughter!" my outrage will be less insincere.

lmao at those pathetic wages, no fucking wonder no one wants to work there

congrats

arent you a doctor? what's the role that allows you to be fully remote

sounds like a step forward career wise to me

congrats!

Good to hear you settled on one. Time with the little one is going to be so important so it's great you could get fully remote.

What industry are you going to or are you just changing employers?

I bet that small amount of revenge against your current company is satisfying lol

We have a quasi-open relationship. She's cool with me hooking up with this chick, especially cause her libido is near-zero nowadays

successful girl here who just bought an 80 K racing SUV right after having a kid

I told her she was gonna do this is lol. Luckily we have a 3,500+ft house. But we already have 4 other cats, Huskies and a ball python. So much upkeep to keep a brand new house clean. I ended up converting a playroom upstairs into the cat condo where the cats live

this part didn't happen though. Anyone who actually read her first post in the topic that she was warned in would not be able to honestly say that she said anything. 75% of the post was sympathetic, comforting and benevolent toward the topic creator. The part about her own situation was briefly mentioned as context. Not to mention, her post was amidst a bunch of deleted posts (several people got warned) saying things like "hell yeah now you don't need birth control!" and other shit like that. She was not at all making anything about herself.

Then, people started talking shit to and about her, being judgmental as fuck and twisting things around. She defended herself and got heated and that's when things got derailed and she started lashing back too hard. She didn't even say anything negative to or about Cleo. It was a matter of "people should be treating me as respectfully as they are treating Cleo here, but they aren't," NOT "people should be shitting on Cleo here like they are shitting on me, but they aren't." Yet the latter is the narrative being sprayed all over by the very same people that started attacking her in the first place. It's fucking transparent and it's bullshit.

That's why it became about her. She wasn't going to stop defending herself and she shouldn't have. She should have done so differently, but she said nothing to warrant being attacked in the first place, which is why that first post was never deleted. She even asked why the other deleted posts were being ignored in spite of being visible in quoted posts (ignored EVEN BY THE TC HIMSELF) which anyone and everyone should have also been wondering as well.

It's amazing to me how people don't understand california

You realize that if you have a good job, you get paid more in California to account for the higher cost of living right...?

It's why I say I'm not rich with mid 100s salary...its not that much in CA

A quick update. They did a blood test for cancer markers and everything is coming back normal so thats a good sign at least.

They wont know for sure until she has the surgery though but its definitely a good sign. My girlfriend is a little more relieved now.

Damnit Cleo thats what I was looking at one of them anyway. Need to switch to a racing SUV for my road trip. GLB AMG or Evouqe R Dynamic I dunno.

Congrats though Im jellin.

Now dats a nice car, I love da color

It really hit us both like bricks. We knew she had the cyst but they kinda made it seem like no big deal. They said its most likely PCOS which would make it harder to conceive but not impossible. Today she got the news that when they go to remove the cyst because of how large they found out it was. If they see its cancerous they are just going to take all of it out.

Its been a very emotionally charged day. I'm kinda lost on where to go from here. I know options but every thing is so pricey and we arent rich.

Try the FitOn app. I've been using it for over 20 weeks. Free workout videos you can do at home. All you need is a mat and some dumb bells (optional).

I can't speak for experience with PTs, but my old gym was $40 a month, and when they got bought by new owners and went up to $80, I joined a new gym which is $40 a month, but if you have a group/family plan under the same card it goes down per person, so I only pay $35 a month for myself. Either way, don't bother with physical trainers. Like other people said, look into online help.

Do you like anime at all? There's an adorable infotainment anime that does a legitimately good job on explaining a lot of basic strength training workouts and stuff about the gym to you, in a light-hearted, comedic manner. Also has the catchiest theme song of all time:

https://youtu.be/fZeQe_vEVCc

Her friends probably don't know how to work out either

Athlean X is pretty much the best channel to learn about exercise. The instructor jeff cavalier really knows his stuff and does a fantastic job teaching folks what to do and what to avoid. Another great channel is hybrid calesthenics, its a young asian kid who is really down to earth that teaches you things you can do without equipment. Good luck. I can also help you if you want someone from here who knows what they are doing. I have over 5 years of fitness industry experience and have been training for over 15 years.

Thats honestly what we're both worried about. They are going for the cyst but depending on what they find while they are removing it she can wake up with no uterus. So its not even a decision she gets to ponder. Its an all or nothing thing.

I'm surprised so many people are saying all gyms are like that. I've been to three different gyms in my life and all have been really chill.

I know it's hard to overcome insecurities when you see fit people all over, but do your best to remind yourself that most if not all people there are only there to improve themselves and aren't concerned with anyone else.

If you can, look around for other gyms in the area with high reviews. If there aren't any others, see if you can get someone else (like your husband) to come join with you. Unless you're really into working out, having a gym buddy to come with you is almost a requirement.

If you mostly just want to show up, and go walk on a treadmill/elliptical/bike the whole time, then yeah Planet Fitness is probably the way to go. Either way, unless you're looking to get like, FIT fit, don't worry about getting a personal trainer.

Just out of curiosity, how much are they charging per month anyway?

I'd advise maybe seeing if anyone in your circles can recommend a good gym or work out with you so they can show you proper form and how to use the machines. Most aren't terribly difficult but strangers are super comfy correcting you and will do so even if you have headphones on lol.

What a buncha dickheads. Don't worry about the insecurities either. Nobody judges anybody at the gym unless they're total dick heads.

I used to go to one with a friend of mine who was an offensive lineman for an NCAA college football team. This guy was a fucking tank but we'd go every morning at 5am. He didn't help alllll that much. Just a few technique tweaks, but I would take your husband with you just to get the comins and goings of certain machines and excercises and then you'll be flyin solo in no time.

I'd also go to a different gym if they're pushy assholes.

Sounds like you just need a planet fitness imo

From what i understand so far is that number one priority is to take out the huge cyst thats there. Other most likely scenario is that they will take out the ovary its in and they will try to save the other.

Worst case scenario is that its cancerous and they take it all out. Uterus and all