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Slip-N-Slide posted...

juicebox4 posted...

Slip-N-Slide posted...

Oh and he's also begging everyone from his original topic over PM, including me.

begging for what

Various things like information on people and for people to hear him out. Hear him out on what? If he has something to counter all this physical proof with, post it why talk to individual people in private?

Because he has no proof and wants to sob story his way out and play a victim for what he started...

First if all I'd like to see what everyone is talking about. I've only seen the one that was posted in the other topic, and it had an explanation. I'm telling you, I would absolutely never say the things I've been accused of to him. Not the way everyone us thinking I have anyway, so yes, I've asked like 4 people who mentioned them if they could show me. I've also asked if they'd be willing to hear my explanation on why I said what I did.
Because I'm 100% certain this is all a misunderstanding, and I want to clear it up.
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Slip-N-Slide posted...

KogaSteelfang posted...

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KogaSteelfang posted...

Slip-N-Slide posted...

He does need mental help. He said a rape victim was lucky and he was jealous.
You're not a friend, you're an enabler of someone who needs help.

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/400-current-events/76757266/904107954

Also, not to mention that gamer was not offended by anything I said until last night, including the supposed things mentioned.

Conflict isn't even on the specific discord they were posted on lol.
No he was offended pretty heavily but choose to bite his tongue because he didn't think you were all there and were a nice guy who needed help.
Then you lied about him and then he stopped giving a shit. Pretty sure he was the last defender you had.

The only lie I told was not using his exact words. What he literally said was "you're unfit to date anyone, so am I, so I don't think you should have a relationship or sex even if the opportunity comes up."
What I said he said "you're not worth being with and shouldn't date." It's the same statement, just not sugarcoated.

When? Where? He posted proof he said the exact opposite.

If I still had the pm's I'd post it, but I don't have them.
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Slip-N-Slide posted...

KogaSteelfang posted...

Slip-N-Slide posted...

He does need mental help. He said a rape victim was lucky and he was jealous.
You're not a friend, you're an enabler of someone who needs help.

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/400-current-events/76757266/904107954

Also, not to mention that gamer was not offended by anything I said until last night, including the supposed things mentioned.

Conflict isn't even on the specific discord they were posted on lol.
No he was offended pretty heavily but choose to bite his tongue because he didn't think you were all there and were a nice guy who needed help.
Then you lied about him and then he stopped giving a shit. Pretty sure he was the last defender you had.

The only lie I told was not using his exact words. What he literally said was "you're unfit to date anyone, so am I, so I don't think you should have a relationship or sex even if the opportunity comes up."
What I said he said "you're not worth being with and shouldn't date." It's the same statement, just not sugarcoated.
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Slip-N-Slide posted...

He does need mental help. He said a rape victim was lucky and he was jealous.
You're not a friend, you're an enabler of someone who needs help.

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/400-current-events/76757266/904107954

Also, not to mention that gamer was not offended by anything I said until last night, including the supposed things mentioned.
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Slip-N-Slide posted...

AngelSeven posted...

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Vyrulisse posted...

Yeah probably to turn him into a man

Well at least you'd be taking one for the team but it would only take 3 seconds and then a lot of crying after. Then probably saying about how he would've rather been raped instead.

Seriously stfu. There's no need to antagonize him. I don't understand how people can get pleasure out of being cruel to others.

He was literally jealous of a rape victim for having sex and fucking told him that.

Koga can fuck off into the psych ward he belongs in.

Funny since this is coming from someone who seems like he has serious issues controlling his anger. Maybe you should take your own advice first before you hurt someone with that edge.

I said the word "fuck" uh oh. Who knows what else I'm capable of with those hulk like anger issues. Someone call the military to come contain me.

And imagine defending someone telling someone they were lucky for being raped. How do people get to a place like that?

I never said that and you know it.
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Gamer99z posted...

KogaSteelfang posted...

Weren't you telling everyone that I said you were lucky to have been raped? Plus look at the date and time. Yesterday night, Wednesday night. That was literally the only time I mentioned you to anyone, and it was only in response to attacks on me from what you had said.

After some screenshots or something you sent to someone else, unrelated to me, came up. People mentioned having tried helping you and everyone basically cross referenced and had the same experiences with you doing the same things. Saying other people didn't like you baselessly, telling people they told you things they didn't, twisting words, and always making yourself out to be a victim I paraphrased something from one of our conversations where I had mentioned the sexual abuse and you said about how I can't understand what you're going through because of that, how you made offhanded remarks after I mentioned that I had non consensual sexual experiences about how I'll never know what it's like because of that, that I don't even have to try. Then you'd go back to telling me I talk about sex too much and brag about it which I have rarely done the former snd never done the latter. The phrasing of all of it was creepy. I found the screenshots and posted them on discord after this topic was made and I'm pretty sure everyone who's seen them agrees what you were implying.
I'm not posting those here with details of my sexual abuse publicly, never should've told you any of it to begin with.

And again, why are you dodging repeatedly making the same lies to and about me? Do you need me to post more screenshots of me having to tell you the exact opposite of what you claim?

If it's the screenshot from earlier, about a 20 year old lamenting his first time, that wasn't directed at you. That was directed at others that had been posting on CE about losing it late at like 19 or 20. Any time I referenced you having sex it was meant to be the consensual type, I would never throw that kind of abuse back in your face. And you had been talking a lot about sex, about needing an emotional connection to enjoy it because you've had many one time encounters and didn't enjoy them. I'm sorry that I took that as bragging.

Thanks for confirming that you guys did in fact have some kind of secret discussion behind my back that I was completely unaware of. Please stop saying I'm the one who dragged you into this when you're the one who dug up old pm's just to show people how awful I am and I managed to catch on.
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Conflict posted...

KogaSteelfang posted...

Weren't you telling everyone that I said you were lucky to have been raped? Plus look at the date and time. Yesterday night, Wednesday night. That was literally the only time I mentioned you to anyone, and it was only in response to attacks on me from what you had said.

He didn't say that.

So rather than trying to deflect why don't you own the lies you told?

I was told by someone I strongly trust that he did, and I was already being insulted by some other users because of it. When I confronted menardi over it, long before I mentioned the above pm was sent, he said it was because of how I treated gamer.
How did those people start attacking me over things that supposedly hadn't been said yet?
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And I don't know what bridges I've burned. I've been asking mipind to send you encouraging messages because I felt you didn't want to talk to me. I guess I was right.
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Weren't you telling everyone that I said you were lucky to have been raped? Plus look at the date and time. Yesterday night, Wednesday night. That was literally the only time I mentioned you to anyone, and it was only in response to attacks on me from what you had said.
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Gamer99z posted...

KogaSteelfang posted...

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xBloodBrotherx posted...

Yes, because they were PM's you fucking sent lol

And about someone else

Behind their back

I don't know what this is in reference to. You guys have all had this discussion without me and judged me already. Clue me on the behind the back pm situation?

Does the reason I posted those screenshots ring any bells for you? Or why I even got on CE to post here?

I didn't bring you into this. You were apparently talking about me behind my back in discord first, sharing information I said to you in private. That led to people turning on me when I had no idea what was going on, and all I did was ask around until I figured out why. Once it became clear I immediately sent you an apology, but it was already too late because I was in argument with menardi by that point.

Well you literally tagged me ITT. That's not you bringing me into this?
And then you again regurgitating the lies about me insulting you, telling you to give up, and bragging about all the sex I have when I've never done either and literally have told you this multiple times. It's been... 4-5 months since we've talked? You're still saying that not just to me, but to others as well.

You're delusional man.

I only mentioned those things after it was brought to my attention that you guys had a whole behind my back discussion about how horrible I am. In which you shared my pm's too apparently. I hardly think explaining myself to one guy in pm and tagging you here is as offensive as he acts like.

Never posted any screenshots until after you started shit. Only time you'd ever come up was when you'd send your weird PM's to people there you had or were in the process of burned your bridge with of people who only initially tried to help you.

Shit, even I still defended you up until Menardi showed me your lying PM. Even when I heard about this topic I didn't care and was going saying not to make a deal out of it. Then he showed me your PM. And you expected.... What?

Um, as far I'm aware, this shit only just started. I only ever mentioned you earlier Wednesday, not before then. And only then because the accusations were abounding about me. Which is well after whatever you guys talked about behind my back.
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DezDroppedFreak posted...

Shut the fuck up and close this topic like you said you would.

I haven't had time. Forgive me for missing the one small moment when the opportunity arises.
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Gamer99z posted...

KogaSteelfang posted...

Gamer99z posted...

KogaSteelfang posted...

xBloodBrotherx posted...

Yes, because they were PM's you fucking sent lol

And about someone else

Behind their back

I don't know what this is in reference to. You guys have all had this discussion without me and judged me already. Clue me on the behind the back pm situation?

Does the reason I posted those screenshots ring any bells for you? Or why I even got on CE to post here?

I didn't bring you into this. You were apparently talking about me behind my back in discord first, sharing information I said to you in private. That led to people turning on me when I had no idea what was going on, and all I did was ask around until I figured out why. Once it became clear I immediately sent you an apology, but it was already too late because I was in argument with menardi by that point.

Well you literally tagged me ITT. That's not you bringing me into this?
And then you again regurgitating the lies about me insulting you, telling you to give up, and bragging about all the sex I have when I've never done either and literally have told you this multiple times. It's been... 4-5 months since we've talked? You're still saying that not just to me, but to others as well.

You're delusional man.

I only mentioned those things after it was brought to my attention that you guys had a whole behind my back discussion about how horrible I am. In which you shared my pm's too apparently. I hardly think explaining myself to one guy in pm and tagging you here is as offensive as he acts like.
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Yes, I tagged him here. How disrespectful of me to want him to be aware of something being discussed that involves him. Hypocrite.
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Gamer99z posted...

KogaSteelfang posted...

xBloodBrotherx posted...

Yes, because they were PM's you fucking sent lol

And about someone else

Behind their back

I don't know what this is in reference to. You guys have all had this discussion without me and judged me already. Clue me on the behind the back pm situation?

Does the reason I posted those screenshots ring any bells for you? Or why I even got on CE to post here?

I didn't bring you into this. You were apparently talking about me behind my back in discord first, sharing information I said to you in private. That led to people turning on me when I had no idea what was going on, and all I did was ask around until I figured out why. Once it became clear I immediately sent you an apology, but it was already too late because I was in argument with menardi by that point.
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xBloodBrotherx posted...

Yes, because they were PM's you fucking sent lol

And about someone else

Behind their back

I don't know what this is in reference to. You guys have all had this discussion without me and judged me already. Clue me on the behind the back pm situation?
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xBloodBrotherx posted...

KogaSteelfang posted...

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KogaSteelfang posted...

And another one I thought was still ok with me.

Before I saw the Discord and how you were with Gamer.

I've already explained that, it was a misunderstanding. I would never say anything like that to someone.

There was more than just that in the Discord... Even disregarding that alone.

Yet I'm supposedly the one stirring this up behind his back, yeah?
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xBloodBrotherx posted...

KogaSteelfang posted...

And another one I thought was still ok with me.

Before I saw the Discord and how you were with Gamer.

I've already explained that, it was a misunderstanding. I would never say anything like that to someone.
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xBloodBrotherx posted...

DezDroppedFreak posted...

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ThatMuttGuy posted...

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And that stuff about the sanctuary is a straight up lie from menardi. I did ask to be removed. I asked chill first and he ignored me. Then I asked you later and was ignored again. Then when I saw that everyone was getting kicked so you could start over, I was expecting that to happen and to just not be invited again. Instead I'm greeted by still being a member and seeing what you guys were asking to be done. For once I felt kind of glad that I was deemed good enough to keep around. It was nice. Then I was kicked later, and the only reason it bothered me then was because the topic I saw and felt like you all were lying to me.

WHAT THE FUCK.

You messaged me and I told you I really got kicked too, because I did. This is just straight up delusion at this point. LITERALLY ONLY 10 PEOPLE WERE STILL ON THE BOARD.

Yes, I did, because I thought it was a mistake that I survived the purge. Obviously if you were loyal to the remaining members you would have lied about it. I don't see how me being confused on whether you were kicked or following orders is anything delusional.

I fucking showed you a picture that they posted where there was 10 people left. Fuck off with your fucking paranoia.

Yes, and that was the end if it. I don't know what the problem with this is now.

You had time to close it yet you didnt.

Nice.

What he needs to close is his account.

And another one I thought was still ok with me.
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ThatMuttGuy posted...

KogaSteelfang posted...

ThatMuttGuy posted...

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ThatMuttGuy posted...

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And that stuff about the sanctuary is a straight up lie from menardi. I did ask to be removed. I asked chill first and he ignored me. Then I asked you later and was ignored again. Then when I saw that everyone was getting kicked so you could start over, I was expecting that to happen and to just not be invited again. Instead I'm greeted by still being a member and seeing what you guys were asking to be done. For once I felt kind of glad that I was deemed good enough to keep around. It was nice. Then I was kicked later, and the only reason it bothered me then was because the topic I saw and felt like you all were lying to me.

WHAT THE FUCK.

You messaged me and I told you I really got kicked too, because I did. This is just straight up delusion at this point. LITERALLY ONLY 10 PEOPLE WERE STILL ON THE BOARD.

Yes, I did, because I thought it was a mistake that I survived the purge. Obviously if you were loyal to the remaining members you would have lied about it. I don't see how me being confused on whether you were kicked or following orders is anything delusional.

I fucking showed you a picture that they posted where there was 10 people left. Fuck off with your fucking paranoia.

Yes, and that was the end if it. I don't know what the problem with this is now.

"And that stuff about the sanctuary is a straight up lie from menardi."

Dude, you can't stop lying for two seconds.

The part about me posting about it on CE was a lie. I never made a single post in all that mess. That I was running around complaining about being kicked is a lie, the only thing I did was pm you to see if it was a mistake that I survived the first time, then question whether you were lying about it or not.
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ThatMuttGuy posted...

KogaSteelfang posted...

ThatMuttGuy posted...

KogaSteelfang posted...

And that stuff about the sanctuary is a straight up lie from menardi. I did ask to be removed. I asked chill first and he ignored me. Then I asked you later and was ignored again. Then when I saw that everyone was getting kicked so you could start over, I was expecting that to happen and to just not be invited again. Instead I'm greeted by still being a member and seeing what you guys were asking to be done. For once I felt kind of glad that I was deemed good enough to keep around. It was nice. Then I was kicked later, and the only reason it bothered me then was because the topic I saw and felt like you all were lying to me.

WHAT THE FUCK.

You messaged me and I told you I really got kicked too, because I did. This is just straight up delusion at this point. LITERALLY ONLY 10 PEOPLE WERE STILL ON THE BOARD.

Yes, I did, because I thought it was a mistake that I survived the purge. Obviously if you were loyal to the remaining members you would have lied about it. I don't see how me being confused on whether you were kicked or following orders is anything delusional.

I fucking showed you a picture that they posted where there was 10 people left. Fuck off with your fucking paranoia.

Yes, and that was the end if it. I don't know what the problem with this is now.
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ThatMuttGuy posted...

KogaSteelfang posted...

And that stuff about the sanctuary is a straight up lie from menardi. I did ask to be removed. I asked chill first and he ignored me. Then I asked you later and was ignored again. Then when I saw that everyone was getting kicked so you could start over, I was expecting that to happen and to just not be invited again. Instead I'm greeted by still being a member and seeing what you guys were asking to be done. For once I felt kind of glad that I was deemed good enough to keep around. It was nice. Then I was kicked later, and the only reason it bothered me then was because the topic I saw and felt like you all were lying to me.

WHAT THE FUCK.

You messaged me and I told you I really got kicked too, because I did. This is just straight up delusion at this point. LITERALLY ONLY 10 PEOPLE WERE STILL ON THE BOARD.

Yes, I did, because I thought it was a mistake that I survived the purge. Obviously if you were loyal to the remaining members you would have lied about it. I don't see how me being confused on whether you were kicked or following orders is anything delusional.
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DezDroppedFreak posted...

Then close it already like you said you would

It requires 5 minutes of no posts to close.
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And that stuff about the sanctuary is a straight up lie from menardi. I did ask to be removed. I asked chill first and he ignored me. Then I asked you later and was ignored again. Then when I saw that everyone was getting kicked so you could start over, I was expecting that to happen and to just not be invited again. Instead I'm greeted by still being a member and seeing what you guys were asking to be done. For once I felt kind of glad that I was deemed good enough to keep around. It was nice. Then I was kicked later, and the only reason it bothered me then was because the topic I saw and felt like you all were lying to me.
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Gamer99z posted...

@Goats Oh I know you didn't. I actually quoted the wrong post out of both being delirious from not sleeping in like 4 nights and being legitimately pissed off at someone because I had to hear from a friend that someone is still spouting off this same shit about me that I've already personally directly told him I never said. I haven't slept in 4 nights and even I'm more lucid than this guy is on a daily basis. He needs fucking help. He's not living in reality. He's always a victim of everything and everybody always hates him, even you yourself hate him while activily trying to help him. That's his reality. He messaged me a day or two before chill purged Sanctuary asking to be removed, I didn't see it until after the purge had already happened, then he's on CE complaining about being removed and convinced he was the only one who was. The board was fucking dead, only the leaders left, because of me being doxxed, and he still was a victim there.

I too had to hear about it from a friend over discord that he was running with this victim bullshit still and dragging my back into his bullshit.

Even though I know he needs serious help, you can only take someone you did nothing but defend, support, and spend hours trying to help lying about you and to you for so long.

And here I was, doing nothing but minding my own business thinking everything was fine when people started insulting me and mocking me. I had no idea what was going on, I had to ask around and found out it's because you told them that I said you were lucky to have been sexually assaulted, which I never did.

I've been dragged into this just as much as you have. Blame me if you want, I just wanted your take on this and since I have it, I'm done.
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Conflict posted...

Okay Koga

You're ignoring my advice and my questions

You're ignoring giant walls of text by people who care about you

You're lying about what other people say to/about you and say they're harsher than they really are

You're trying to make a public scene on CE of all places

And you're doing what LittleRoyal did earlier, constantly victimizing yourself rather than just addressing what you did wrong and apologize for it coming off that way

Do you not see why this would frustrate other people?

No, don't read this shit and get even further down on yourself because I said you're frustrating other people. FFS man. Act productive. Use it as a learning experience. It's not the end of the world.

I did apologize, I sent him an apology earlier and I apologized above too. Whatever was said, it was never meant to be hurtful, even though I apparently caused him a lot of pain.

Now that he's shown up, said his peace, and everyone knows to stop showing me any kind of sympathy, I'll close it now. I just honestly didn't realize how horrible I'd been to him.
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Well there we have it then, straight from the source, thanks gamer99z for finally responding. And I'm sorry I've been so horrible to you. Now everyone can see me for what I really am then.
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Kanaya413 posted...

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ThatMuttGuy posted...

KogaSteelfang posted...

@tremain07 I did have friends, for a little while. Then I lost them and they all hate me now because they think I'm some kind of rape sympathizer. How is that supposed to not bother me?

Who the fuck called you a rape sympathizer? See, this is why people say you lie. Because you do.

What else would you call it when I'm accused of telling him he was lucky to have been raped? Also, in case you didn't see it before, the comment about a 20 year old lamenting his first time WAS NOT aimed at gamer. I do see that I worded it poorly though and where the mixup happened, but it's not what I said.

Then when I find out the reason everyone is hating on me now, I'm not allowed to explain myself?

Recently i was also accused of doing something terrible by a group of people
I was not even given a,chance to explain myself
So instead i just cut them all out. If someone is going to spread lies about you, why bother talking with them?

I did, when I left the discord and promised I wouldn't bother them again. I had to break that promise when their behavior changed towards me anyway, and it turns out it's because of something I said a long time ago that was completely misunderstood. Yes, I realize the misunderstanding was my fault, but I've been dragged into this when I did nothing wrong.

Most of all, I want gamer to know the truth.
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Anyone whose spent more than a minute talking with me should know I would never say something like that to him. The fact that I was accused and judged guilty before I even knew what was going is nuts.
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ThatMuttGuy posted...

KogaSteelfang posted...

@tremain07 I did have friends, for a little while. Then I lost them and they all hate me now because they think I'm some kind of rape sympathizer. How is that supposed to not bother me?

Who the fuck called you a rape sympathizer? See, this is why people say you lie. Because you do.

What else would you call it when I'm accused of telling him he was lucky to have been raped? Also, in case you didn't see it before, the comment about a 20 year old lamenting his first time WAS NOT aimed at gamer. I do see that I worded it poorly though and where the mixup happened, but it's not what I said.

Then when I find out the reason everyone is hating on me now, I'm not allowed to explain myself?
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@tremain07 I did have friends, for a little while. Then I lost them and they all hate me now because they think I'm some kind of rape sympathizer. How is that supposed to not bother me?
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ThatMuttGuy posted...

https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/404856608187744267/461754194966085633/unknown.png

This was sent to Gamer

That comment about a 20 year old lamenting about first having sex wasn't aimed at him. Further down you can clearly see I didn't know his age. It was directed at several topics that had been on CE with people aged 19-21 complaining that they didn't lose it until then,

Like I've been telling you, it was a misunderstanding. Like I said above, the comment about getting it without trying was in regards to his girlfriend at the time who he said pursued him until he caved, and the several one night stands he'd had before that.
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DezDroppedFreak posted...

KogaSteelfang posted...

Goats posted...

It sounds like he was trying to give you some helpful advice and the message just got crossed. Leave gamer alone, he's been through enough in the past two months skarmory.

I get that, I really do. But have I not also been through a lot? Why is it acceptable for people to attack me over a misunderstanding, and have me lose people I was friends with, but I'm crossing a line by asking for his opinion?

This is not healthy dude.

What's not healthy is having half the people I know and were close with turn on me because think I said horrible when I didn't.
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Goats posted...

It sounds like he was trying to give you some helpful advice and the message just got crossed. Leave gamer alone, he's been through enough in the past two months skarmory.

I get that, I really do. But have I not also been through a lot? Why is it acceptable for people to attack me over a misunderstanding, and have me lose people I was friends with, but I'm crossing a line by asking for his opinion?
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Thatmuttguy posted...

you got jealous that gamer "technically" got sexually abused
-you said "see you didn't have to even try" and double downed on it.

And as I already explained to you, that's not what I said. The "you didn't even have to try" was in response to him telling me I'm not worth being with and that I shouldn't even accept a relationship or anything if the opportunity arose, followed by him telling me he's also unfit, but that he was pursued by his then girlfriend and he accepted it. Even though he was telling me I shouldn't.

I don't know how to explain the other thing without revealing info he may not want to be made public. But it's not what it looks like. It was a pure misunderstanding.
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I'm not going to close this until gamer puts in his opinion. If he ignores it and it purges, fine.
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Conflict posted...

KogaSteelfang posted...

teepan95 posted...

PSA that to TC

Losing your virginity to sexual assault is better than being a virgin

mentioning you have a gf is "rubbing your sex life in [his] face"

People say he's a good dude, but he's slowly losing any sympathy I had for him

And I hate myself almost as much as he does

This is it. Even though not a single person ever asked me what was actually said, I've been judged as a complete ass hole who tells rape victims they were lucky. The only thing that matters is that they were looking for a reason and now they have it.

I already knew about that

I'm not sure what the use is of making a public topic like this and broadcasting it more so everyone can dogpile on you

And I know that you didn't mean it that way, it was just a tactless comment riddled with self-hatred

Again, I cannot make this more clear. You need professional help. How does making topics like this help you or anybody?

I absolutely did not mean it the way it was taken. I would never say that someone, but the fact that everyone believes I did and has used it against me when I literally had no idea what was even going on is proof no one cares about me. If they had they would've asked why I said anything like that, instead I'm now just a piece of shit.
I just thought everyone should know not to waste their time/breath on someone as horrible as I am.
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ThatMuttGuy posted...

Stop make everything about yourself. Close this topic and leave Gamer alone.

This is from the guy who was willing to start mocking and insulting me, even when you still considered me a "friend" and turned completely against me over a misunderstanding. Go ahead, tell everyone how despicable I am.
Once gamer gets here and confirms it, I'll lose all sympathy I ever had here and you guys win.
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teepan95 posted...

PSA that to TC

Losing your virginity to sexual assault is better than being a virgin

mentioning you have a gf is "rubbing your sex life in [his] face"

People say he's a good dude, but he's slowly losing any sympathy I had for him

And I hate myself almost as much as he does

This is it. Even though not a single person ever asked me what was actually said, I've been judged as a complete ass hole who tells rape victims they were lucky. The only thing that matters is that they were looking for a reason and now they have it.
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0AbsoluteZero0 posted...

Conflict posted...

I'm literally in the same discord as all of those people except paintball. Nobody hates you. You just need help that people here can't provide.

Making topics like this isn't gonna help you

This. Youre a good dude, you just need to sort out some issues Koga

I'm really not. Wait till menardi and gamer get here.
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Conflict posted...

Stop this and get help, dude.

You'll change your tune when the others step in.
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This user is the biggest piece of shit on the board. He's worthless and pathetic. Don't waste your time giving him sympathy or advice, he doesn't deserve it. He doesn't deserve your kindness or friendship. He's nothing but a complete waste of space. Don't let him make you feel bad for him with his stories of how bad his life is, it's the life he deserves. Actually, he deserves much worse. He's completely irredeemable and will do nothing but make you feel worse by associating with him. He's unfit to be in a relationship, or to be with anybody at all. He's undeserving of friendship and kindness, he'll just use you and abuse the kindness to feel better about himself.
He's just a parasite, and he needs to be shown his place. Do your part and help keep him in the gutter where he belongs.

@ThatMuttGuy
@Leanaunfurled
@Gamer99z
@PlsGodDontBanMe
Can all confirm. Vulgorn too, but I don't know what his current account is. Feel free to chime I with your own experiences with this human garbage. Just remember to keep it tou safe.
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Same.
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Nothing new for me, obviously. I've given up again, so this is likely to be my only post here.

Hairy-man posted...

Im a tinder dude again. Having some fun

Heh, figures.
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Hello.
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Yes.
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Yeah, always.
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Barely, it's thin and doesn't have much coverage. I tend to look best with stubble or just light growth anyway though, and I hate shaving, so I don't mind. What I do mind is not having any chest hair though, I don't want a lot, but some would be nice lol.
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Happy birthday!
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Nope, never have.
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