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wwinterj25 posted...

Zanimar posted...

bringing what?

Pantomimes or pantos for short.
http://www.pantomime.com/images/made/images/uploads/artwork/Darlington_Hippodrome_800_1131.jpg

Ah, ok, Never heard of pantomiming being referred to as such. Though I didn't know pantomiming was a thing outside of playing charades or people who don't know a lick of sign-language trying to talk to a deaf person so I learned something new lol.
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wwinterj25 posted...

Ah I see Disney are now bringing pantos to the big screen.

bringing what?
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wwinterj25 posted...

Clearly I'm not talking about rape.

But according to your logic, if a person does anything sexual with someone of the same gender, they are no longer straight. So there should be no exception to your belief and if it does have exceptions, then why is it just this one and not other exceptions such as having sex for payment or other reasons?

wwinterj25 posted...

Yeah they are actually gay because you know, they do sexual things with guys.

So despite having a girlfriend/fiance/wife and despite they only have sex with other men when payment is involved and that they require a lot of alternative stimulus in order to perform their job, they are still gay with not even you considering them bi?

wwinterj25 posted...

They however won't have sex with sexes they are not sexually interested in as far as I know.

Actually, they will, they'll have sex with anyone that pays enough. Again, when it comes to money, everyone has a price to agree to have sex with someone they are not sexually attracted to. The only time a prostitute/escort will refuse is when the client is being mean/abusive/violent or has a reputation for such things and even in those cases, some will endure it for the money.
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GanglyKhan posted...

Zanimar posted...

GanglyKhan posted...

Imagine being a cuck lmao

Imagine being someone that kink shames others lmao.

Lol, okay dude "other people fuck my wife" just exudes respect.

If it's a kink, then yes. Should you disrespect people that are into bondage because being tied and/or gagged is not pleasurable to you? Should you disrespect people that like being spanked because you don't think it's hot? Just because you may not understand why some people get aroused by a certain action does not mean you should disrespect them because of what they are into. Would you enjoy someone disrespecting you for something that you liked?

Here is a few links to take a look at so as to better unerstand the kink known as cuckolding



https://www.cnn.com/2018/01/25/health/cuckolding-sex-kerner/index.html

https://www.yourtango.com/2017299286/what-is-cuckold-and-what-makes-it-kinky-sex
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Kyuubi4269 posted...

There isn't though.

There is, you can have sex with anyone for a multitude of reasons, none of which involve being sexually attracted to a person. On the flip side, when you looking for a sexual partner to have sex for pleasure, you're gonna be looking for gender and other factors that arouse you. Again, I point you to gay-for-pay actors who only have sex with the same gender for money. Outside of their job, they'll have no sexual interaction with the same gender. It's easy to have sex with anyone when given the right motivation, but when you are seeking sex for your own pleasure, then you will always go for the people that you have a sexual attraction to.

wwinterj25 posted...

Well no, you can't because you've done sexual things with the same sex. "I'm hetro bro but just suck my dick a bit, ok?" doesn't work.

So if a male is forced to have sex with another male, the male that was forced is now bi because of the forced sex?

wwinterj25 posted...

One would assume your willing to have sex with someone if you're sexually attracted to someone.

That's not how sexual attraction works. You can provide someone with the correct motivation to make them willing to have sex with someone, but that doesn't mean they actually want to have sex with that person. Again, take gay-for-pay actors, they get paid a lot of money to have sex with the same sex and in order for them to do so, they resort to having alternative stimulus going on to assist them. Some take pills, others watch porn, and some visualize having sex with a random hot girl/their girlfriend/their wife in order to get the job done. As I mentioned before, it's easy to have sex when given the right motivation, but that doesn't mean you are sexually attracted to that person you are having sex with. Another example are prostitutes and escorts, neither just willfully have sex with every person they hook up with because they are sexually attracted, they have sex because they were paid for it and have agreed to provide said sexual service.
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GanglyKhan posted...

Imagine being a cuck lmao

Imagine being someone that kink shames others lmao.
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Kyuubi4269 posted...

I'm attracted to some females and very rarely males I would sodomize, yes

That doesn't really answer my question. There is a big difference between being sexually attracted and being willing to have intercourse.
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wwinterj25 posted...

Not really. Heterosexual, Homosexual/Homosexuelle or Bisexual are the only three. The rest is just some folk trying to make themselves out to be some kind of special snowflake much like all these genders that allegedly exist. Done anything sexual with both men and woman willingly? You're bisexual as far as I'm concerned.

That's not what I meant. I was referring to the people saying you can't be straight if you have done anything sexual with the same sex.

Kyuubi4269 posted...

Bi is every step of grey. For example, I'm 1 on the Kinsey Scale, and it's so infrequent that I'd refer to myself as straight for convenience, but I don't deny being bi.

So you are sexually attracted to both males and females?
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I say sure, I'd live with him. So far he seems to be a really cool dude and I'm such an easy going person that it's rare for me to find someone that I can't at least consider as an acquaintance. I always like having someone around, even if it's just a roommate or friend so that I have a reason to cook some of my not boring meals and have a reason to improve my cooking to create even tastier dishes for someone to enjoy.
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This hot older dude that is about a hour drive from me, we had really hard and rough sex with him being the top and me happily enjoying being a bottom. We massaged each other afterwards and then I struggled to leave as I wanted more, but had to leave to make it back home at a reasonable time. This was a few months ago.
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I think certain people here are trying to make sexuality too much of a black and white situation when there is a ton of gray area when it comes to sexuality. Heck, there would not be a Kinsey Scale if it was such a binary concept. In my case the straight guys I've given oral too have only ever had me as their one and only guy and it was because we were friends that it even happened. There was never anything mutual to those times as they would not interact with me in any form beyond me giving them oral, keeping their eyes closed to visualize some girl they had the hots for. This was back when we were teenagers where one could get erect from just a simple breeze.

Here's some info on the Kinsey Scale (aka, the sexuality scale I mentioned) to give you a better understanding of it.

https://kinseyinstitute.org/research/publications/kinsey-scale.php
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LinkPizza posted...

Im not big on spicy foods, but I just dont like it when the heat doesnt go away mostly. And because my dad left me eat a jalapeo slice that I thought was a pickle slice when I was a kid...

I also wasnt a big fan of my food touching each other.

Something that is a little weird is I dont like to eat the ends of stuff sometimes...

I totally understand. I don't like having food touch either. I'm better about it now, as opposed to when I was a kid. I also don't eat the sides of baked breads (e.g. biscuits, cinnamon rolls, etc.) that looked burned from touching the side of a baking pan while cooking. Also I don't eat all of a chicken if it has a bone in it. I'll eat most of the meat but when it's down to the bits directly attached to the bone and I won't eat bits of chicken that have cooked/dried blood on them.
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LinkPizza posted...

So, hes just all over the place? The brother, I mean.

I suppose. Aside from the forced interactions I've had with him because of friends and the rare times I'd see him in a store, I know next to nothing about him aside from what his brother and cousin (mostly cousin) have said. He has been in jail a number of times for various reasons and is a major drug user (though I don't know what he does besides alcohol and weed). Currently he works on a pipeline if I remember right. I know his biological daughter doesn't like him either and I can tell something is going on since she seems to want to be no where near her home and goes over to my friend's (her cousin I guess) house and stays there until night when she has to go home. I didn't want to pry much since it's not my business and if it was something that was ok to share, they would have told me already.

I just know that I don't want to be alone with him, both because my addiction to men would cause me to actually agree to him and that I know he may have the potential to be violent and I quite like living. Though I'm strictly gay men now, but there is a curiosity that lingers since his brother (the crush) mentioned him being way bigger downstairs than him.
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I can't play Fallout 4 currently. I ended up getting that nasty 0kb bug and now I can't save the game anymore. :(
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LinkPizza posted...

This maybe a weird question, but did the cousin let his cousin jerk him off? Or did he try to stop him?

Oh no, he put a stop to it real quick. He was not happy about what the dude tried to do and wanted beat the ever living daylight out of him for it, but it was a public place and he's gotten better about his temper so he just got away from the situation and has avoided him since. Though we joke around a lot, my friend could never really bring himself to mess with another guy. Even when he use to stay over my house all the time and had a number of opportunities, he never made a move. Currently he has a girlfriend.
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I don't know if I could say I'm afraid of heights, but I for sure can say that I definitely do not like heights. I don't even like being picked up by people. I'm a fat dude with no balance so I'd rather keep myself as much on the ground as I can so that when I fall, I only make a 2.0 earthquake and not a 9.0 one.
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Sorta, I guess. I mean, I'll try anything once, but there are some foods I simply won't eat. For example there is this dish my mom would make all the time that she named Texas Hash or something like that and I would not eat it ever so she would have to use some of the hamburger meat to make me a hamburger patty. Though on the flip side, when my mom would make her chicken enchilada casserole, I would eat almost half of it because it was so good.

Anywho, as long as it isn't super spicy, I'll usually eat it and the only reason I don't eat spicy food is because of my stomach more than my preferences.
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LinkPizza posted...

Also, Ive never messed around with a straight guy. Though, it might be because I was never never a fan of no reciprocation. Haha.

There isn't much option where I live. Heck for a long while I figured I was the only gay guy living here lol. Honestly if I had other gays as options, I would never have fooled with any straight guys. I mean, I don't regret fooling around with them since they were each good friends of mine, but it would have made things at lot less painful emotionally if there could have been some kind of emotional reciprocation. Also, I'm too much of a giver, I'd don't mind if others want to do stuff to me, but at the same time, I don't really get any satisfaction from it aside from one activity but that is what makes me an insatiable bottom lol. My satisfaction comes from knowing I've done a good job at what I do via the sounds the other person makes lol.

LinkPizza posted...

I would personally like to hear both the awkward and creepy story, if you dont mind. If you dont want to put it here, you can also PM me. But its also ok if its to personal...

Oh no, nothing is too personal. I mean, back when I was more freaked about being out, only one person I was friends with knew everything about my personal life (which is a bit awkward since my best friend was cousins with the dude I had a crush on lol) but now I only hide things for the sake of others. I'm an open book to anyone that wants to know anything about my personal life since I don't have an issues with intimacy as a whole.

Anyway, it's a pretty boring story overall though. Basically I was visiting my friend since he was home for the weekend and was waiting on his cousin to come pick him up to go back to college. Now, before I continue, I should mention that we already had the whole me coming out thing with the brother saying that he was cool with me as long as I don't flirt with him. I was never interested in him and I straight up told him in a joking (though he didn't know the truth) that I'd rather have his brother over him. Anywho, the cousin goes to help my friend gather his stuff and the brother calls me over saying he wants to ask me something and when I asked him what he wanted, he told me never mind and that was that. Later I found out the brother had been asking my friend if I liked taking it in the butt and if I liked it rough. My friend played dumb and told the brother he didn't know and should ask me instead. I never heard from the brother, but on super rare moments I see him, he's way nicer to me than he's ever been to me before that day.

I should mention that the dude I had a crush on and the brother had their dad end up coming out as gay and running off with another dude and abandoning them. They also had a gay uncle who ended up being arrested for being a pedophile and soliciting young men over the webcam to do sexual activities. I've met the uncle a couple times when I would go to visit my friend/crush, though this was long after I was past 18, but I did always have a bad feeling about him since the things he openly admitted to me lying to guys on chat and pretending to be a woman (though he left out the part about the being underage). Anywho, I just recently found out that on a swimming trip, the brother had sneaked up behind my friend (as a reminder, they are cousins to each other) and started to try to jerk him off. Oh I should mention that back when he asked about me and with his cousin, the brother is married and has a kid, though he cheats on her basically 24/7.
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Zareth posted...

I mean, I'd never make a move on a dude but if a dude made a move on me and he seemed nice I'd give it a shot, why not.

How's your day going? Can I make you a nice home cooked meal? ;)
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LinkPizza posted...

Well, something sort of like Bugmeats story. Also, for example, I know people who are gay, but didn't really known for sure at first. Or just experimenting to see what it was like... stuff like that, I guess. And the stories you gave were good, too.

Nah, the guys I played with in high school ended up being very straight. The one I had a crush on went to later on end up "accidentally" getting a girl pregnant and is current with that girl for the sake of the child, despite her (and him as well so they both are innocent) cheating on him constantly. It's a shame since during school he was such a different person and I saw a side of him that he normally would never show, but he never opened up so his life has ended up in a not so ideal place. I do feel bad for him, but at the same time I've long since moved on. There was one person, who I guess you could say was the first person I felt real love for, but that was a very awkward situation and he and his family moved away.

I do have one creepy story about a guy. It didn't go anywhere, it's just something that has stuck with me and I found to be disturbing. I can share if anyone wants to hear it, but it wouldn't be as interesting since nothing happened from it, though it does involve the brother of the dude I had a crush on and was hooking up with on rare moments.
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LinkPizza posted...

And for the gay guys and lesbians ladies, the same with members of the same sex?

I mean, I wouldn't be gay if I wasn't having sexual contact with members of the same sex, lol. I hope I get what you were trying to say though and my real answer is kinda sorta, but it was when I was a kid with another kid and we didn't really know what we were doing and the whole thing was more one sided since I had no interest while she was trying her best. Mostly it was just confused groping and awkward "kissing." Basically it was about as sexual as watching a baby trying to walk for the first time and failing horribly.

On a side note, during high school I had plenty of fun with a few straight guys. I even had quite the oral experience with a dude during school, in the school's football stadium's locker room while athlethic P.E. was going on. Man, that was a fun one and I had such a crush on him, but thankfully it never ended up being more than just me giving him the rare oral fun as he turned out not to be the person I thought I saw and he really did not age well.

There was another dude that came along a bit later in that school year who was a lot more willing to play around, but despite not being gifted in a certain area, I really enjoyed being around him. He was really playful and was probably the only time of my life I actually wanted to engage in intimate acts with someone. Again, nothing ever ended up really happening and I've no idea what has happened to him since I only ever saw him once since graduation and I think he had a girlfriend then. Anywho, sorry for rambling.
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Zangulus posted...

Krazy_Kirby posted...

Zangulus posted...

Krazy_Kirby posted...

amazon sells just about everything. even kitchen sinks and toilets

They even advertise bear mace, and occasionally they'll give away someone's order to their workers.

never heard of that. i suppose someone could steal something, but there are cameras everywhere so they would get caught

I did not in any way imply theft.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/business/2018/12/05/dozens-amazon-workers-sickened-after-bear-repellent-accidentally-discharged-warehouse

Nothing in that article even suggests that Amazon gives people's orders to their workers. That article states that an accident occurred that caused people to go to the hospital. Are you sure you linked the right article?
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Here is a video that explains it nicely and easily.


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The only game that really made me feel things was Dragon Age 2 because the death of Hawke's mother had reminded my of having lost my own mother the year or so before so that was still a touchy subject to me and had me crying after having kept it together for so long.
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LinkPizza posted...

Zanimar posted...

LinkPizza posted...

Apparently, he was going to sex parties. Maybe it had to do with that. Those can be pretty tiring...

True, I'm a one person type of guy. I could never do multiple people or even one of those parties.

Ive had many threesomes and been to a small orgy or two (only 4 people). But they are tiring. I like one on one better...

Yeah, I've kinda sorta had a threesome two times, but the first time didn't get very far since one dude had taken something and kept falling asleep and couldn't keep it up and the 2nd time devolved into me giving oral to one dude while the other dude just watched. I much prefer one on one since I'm the type that likes to devote all my energy into making one person super happy than making multiple people mildly happy.
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PK_Spam posted...

@Zanimar

Holy shit! I havent seen you in a long while, buddy. Its me Shark. Howre you doing?

Hey man, I'm good. Had a tonsillectomy a few weeks back so I'm just still healing from that (currently dealing with the scabs falling off and returning soreness as they fall off). Other than that, I'm good, been seeing a therapist for my anxiety and persistent depression and it's been helping out a ton and I've been overall happier.
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LinkPizza posted...

Apparently, he was going to sex parties. Maybe it had to do with that. Those can be pretty tiring...

True, I'm a one person type of guy. I could never do multiple people or even one of those parties.
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PK_Spam posted...

Dwight Howard is weak then

Ive met pillow princesses who can take more and then break a PR while squatting an hour later

Seriously. I don't do squats, but I can take it for days and still feel right as rain and go back to do my normal routine of life without so much as tickle down there.

Mind you, I'm not that much of a sex fiend, just saying I'm not one that can get worn out and can do what I need and want to do regardless of how long of a intimate time I've had.
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BlazeAndBlade posted...

Night Trap

There is a remaster of Night Trap available. It's Night Trap 25th Anniversary edition and seems to be on PC, PS4 and Switch.
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I honestly don't think I could limit a person to only twice a day. I'd have intercourse with a dude as many times a day as they wanted. Heck, they'll tire out long before I do so I may as well let them have at it as much as they'd like.
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LinkPizza posted...

Zanimar posted...

Gotta say, I feel bad for that little girl to have a parent name her something so absurd. The only issue I ever have with my name is spelling since there are two ways to spell my name and everyone wants to spell it the way it isn't spelled and never even ask or consider that it may be spelled the other way.

Thats like my best friend. Her name is normal, but they spelled it with a second i instead of an e...

Yeah, mine has an a, but everyone replaces the a with an i.
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Gotta say, I feel bad for that little girl to have a parent name her something so absurd. The only issue I ever have with my name is spelling since there are two ways to spell my name and everyone wants to spell it the way it isn't spelled and never even ask or consider that it may be spelled the other way.
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It's very simple. My family was poor so we could only afford to have one system and that was the Super Nintendo since back then the local stores around me mostly only had Nintendo stuff and it wasn't for a long time till they finally started to stock Sega stuff, though even then it was very limited.
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Mead posted...

SunWuKung420 posted...

Being gay is not a con. It's sad you think so.

It aint up to you what a person considers a pro or a con about themself stop trying to be the boss of everyone elses life

Woah woah woah, no need to be harsh. I listed being gay as a con as a joke so that someone would either ask why it was a con or to say it's not a con so that I could respond with my lame joke of "it's a con for interested women."
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SunWuKung420 posted...

Being gay is not a con. It's sad you think so.

It is a con if you're a woman that was interested in all the pros, only to then find I like getting stuffed full of man sausage. ;)
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Pros:
-I'm very nice/kind-hearted
-I'm loyal to friends/family/significant others
- I don't cheat nor do I assist in cheating when I know the person is in a relationship.
- You can never wear me out when it comes to intimacy.
- I cook, clean, wash and fold clothes.
- I give good massages (or at least I'm told I do)
- I'm very laid back and easy going and try to resolve things with talking instead of fighting.
- I love to listen and even talk about stuff.

Cons:
- I'm gay.
- I'm the ugliest man on Earth.
- I'm a bit naive in some areas.
- I'm a bit too much of a goody two shoes.
- I'm not very kinky (though I do have a fascination with kink culture).
- I'm a bit naive in a lot of areas.
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I dunno, I'm an equal opportunity whore, I'll get intimate with any dude as long as long as I get along well enough with them. I'm a sucker for the D, though I am a respectable person and while I may express an interest, I leave it up to the other person to make the first move.
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Shirt and underwear all year round.
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Well, just make sure not to rip the skin when you pull on it.
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Pikazard1 posted...

due to post #23, I spat soft-pretzel bits onto my laptop screen from laughing

I have a mess to clean up, but that was hysterical

@Zanimar sorry for the laugh at your expense, but do hope you're feeling better

Don't feel bad, I always try to make my posts that relate to my intimacy humorous in some form so that it helps to lessen the whole sex talk. If you laughed, then my post did it's job and it makes me a happy camper.

Also, thanks, I am well enough to function normally, it's just the doctor said it would take 6 more weeks before I'm 100% back to normal. Though I do still have a touch of soreness and adjusting to the lack of tonsils (especially since mine were so large they made life difficult, even swallowing medicine felt like I was choking) is taking some time since there are some foods that will cause irritation and I can't even touch spicy foods at the moment.
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darcandkharg31 posted...

Getting pretty graphic in here.

My apologies, I'm trying my best to keep myself PG. :(
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Yeah, I like those Teriyaki Tendor Bites things and a bag of those is about $8 where I live and you don't really get a whole lot in the bag. I ended up just not bothering anymore since I'm not big on snacking and there are cheaper snacks that satisfy me just as well or better. I particularly really love Wheat Thins Tomato and Basil flavor.
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Zareth posted...

You can still licky dicky, you just can't swallow the sausage.

But that's so boring though. If I'm not gagging, then it's not a good session lol.

That aside, it's not so much that the healing is keeping me from it, it's more the whole ordeal has just sent me into a bit of a downer mood. A few days after the initial Tonsillectomy, I ended up popping a blood vein and had to go back for emergency surgery and it ended up freaking me out so it's made me a bit more paranoid than normal so I've been following the doctor's orders to the letter.
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Zareth posted...

Your tonsils aren't in your rectum though.

Yeah, but the thing I love to do the most involves my mouth and most guys tend to want to do more than just anal, at least the guys that I've met. If I met a guy that only wanted the rump and could go for more than a couple minutes, I'd be glad to let them have at it lol.
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LinkPizza posted...

Dont worry. Theres enough for everybody...

Not for me, I'm a whore when it comes to the D.

On an actually serious note, I can't have any since I'm still healing from my Tonsillectomy and it's a real mood killer.
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darcandkharg31 posted...

You got someones dick up your ass

But.... but... I want that. :(
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Lokarin posted...

electrocute means they died, the proper term is shocked... but I get the need for hyperbole.

To be precise it means to kill or severely injure via electric shock, though I imagine if the dog was injured, it would not be looking as chipper as it is in that picture.
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No baking with me. I'm just going over to my cousin's for Thanksgiving, otherwise I wouldn't be having one at all. Still recovering from my Tonsillectomy, so haven't been in the mood for much other than resting, though I am able to eat normal food (after having to force myself to start eating normally when I was starting to vomit bile from starvation because of not having anything other than ice pops for 2 weeks straight).
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Lokarin posted...

I rather like Radiatore, but it's hard to find so I get rigatoni.

Me too, luckily my local stores always carry them so I'm able to get them often. I'd say my second favorite is fusilli since the spiral shape is a good way of keeping sauce on the pasta.
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I don't have much choice right now. My Tonsillectomy from yesterday has put me out of the mood and I can't give oral even if I wanted to so no pleasing men for a while.
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