being gay is a much bigger personality trait than being straight though
think of it this way: somebody asks you to describe brad pitt and elton john in five words each
chances are good that one of the five words you use to describe elton john is gay
it is pretty much a certainty that you don't use the word "straight" to describe brad pitt
being straight doesn't define me or any other straight guy at all
for a lot of gay guys, their sexual preference does define them
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