...man, if you're just plain killing the name and letting any boy or girl join them regardless, then this issue still doesn't happen. as it wouldn't matter what he thinks he is (or what his parents think he is) since it wouldn't come to play. it's only an issue if you make the divide in the first place AND start using what people feel they are as the basis for it instead of a straight dividing line.
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The future must protect the clone's past.
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