I'm sorry, but that is not how it works. As any basic course in game theory will show you there are plenty of instances where the outcome people want will only come about through compulsion due to the great desire to cheat.
Then they don't really want it after all now do they?
What everyone wants is for someone else's money to go towards helping the homeless or the sick or the unemployed. Well guess what, you don't have any right to someone else's money, whether the majority agrees with you or not.
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