Uh, there's nothing wrong with loving women who are *ahem* full-figured, but there's nothing wrong with holding women to a certain level of standard, too. Especially since the reverse is true, too. A woman isn't a scumbag if she ditches her man because he's getting fat.
Basically, if you're dating someone you're likely going to find them attractive, and if they move out of that zone of attractiveness then it's perfectly fine to A) warn them of that and B) leave them if they don't change.
That doesn't make you a scumbag. What makes you a scumbag is demanding a certain look from a person and then not being able to keep your own figure in shape. If you're some fat s*** telling someone else they're fat, you're a moron.
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