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mariolover2 posted...

eh, I know a guy who uses clapper app. it isnt actually any stranger than the strip club. Its safer for introverts (male or female).

some of the women actually phone him and enjoy his humor, but hes too shy to facetime them. He might have given in and lost money, lol.

hes not losing anything if hes gaining affection he cant find elsewhere.

I'm not familiar with whatever app you are talking about. If it's some connection app, that doesnt require either or side to pay other, then you are talking about completely something else.

However any app or service that literally requires you to pay the other person for an interaction, and trying to claim to be an emotional connection, is not a genuine 2 way emotional connection. Telling these people that it is, is not healthy.

It's also a lie that the person accepting the money genuinely wants to talk to you for a real emotional connection. A real 2 way emotional connection doesnt stop the moment the money stops flowing in.

All its doing is feeding into the problems these people are having in the first place thinking they have some emotional connection with the person they are throwing money at. As these people genuinely are convinced the people they are showering money to genuinely loves them if the cash wasn't flowing. They also get it twisted when they are contacted by them. Your one way connection you are paying for, contacting you isn't a mind blowing surprise given they want you to keep paying.

This is a one way transactional connection, plain and simple. Call me when this 2 way "emotional connection" continues after the payments cease to exist.