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Ivynn posted...

I don't think I've ever directly talked to TC before, but I've seen his posts and he genuinely seems like a good guy (and apparently good-looking). What exactly is stopping you, TC? Just a supreme lack of confidence? If you've tried before, how exactly did it go? You don't need to answer if you don't want to.

I have a lot of issues and hangups.
I have really had social anxiety, and depression. Super low self esteem and self loathing tendencies. I'm emotionally damaged from abuse and feeling unwanted is a major trigger which sends me into a downward spiral.

I have tried, and I got plenty of matches off of tinder, okcupid and bumble. But that's as far as it went. They either just never responded to a message, or did fir 1-2 then ghosted, or unmatched me. It really just wore me down more than anything and I gave up.

I need to be in a certain frame of mind to try again, but I haven't been there in a long time. I see everyone else succeed all around me and on here and it just makes me feel like I'm not good enough.

That's really all there is to it.