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KogaSteelfang posted...

I haven't made it to 40 in this situation by having the option. It takes 2, and I'm just half of the equation. The half that ruins the whole thing, but I would've thought I could've found someone by now if it was possible.

I get that. I've been always of the mindset you only start an actual relationship once you feel both actually are able to improve each other's lives in some way. Every single time someone's been interested in me I feel like they would only bring me down due to various reasons. And every single time I've been interested I feel like I wouldn't be able to provide them with a better life.

KogaSteelfang posted...

You should be able to understand then. I mean, can't toy pay an escort to pretend to care about you? That's solves your emotional connection as much as it solves my physical one.

Depends tbh. I have zero experience with escorts myself, but I know from others that there are def those who take the emotional aspect into account and that's the ones they return to. It's no so much that they actually care about you, but they realize a tender touch or a sweet word is just as much important than the act itself. And that can make a world of difference.

KogaSteelfang posted...

Besides, who says I don't crave the emotional connection more anyway?

That's what we all crave. But you can get that without having sex, even with an asexual person. The physical connection just enhances the emotional one when having sex. I just assumed you were referring to the act itself and just "getting it over with" because it's deemed to be one of life's essential experiences by many