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metralo posted...

I was with a woman for 8 years, took me at least 2 years to just feel normal in general again

I'm glad you found a way to move on.

_____Cait posted...

It takes time, but you get over it.

Its harder if you keep in contact with them.

Basically, you need to let your mind reboot itself, and it will only do that by adding new memories, and not letting the ex back in to stop the progress.

It sucks. I thought it would be impossible, but one day, i juSt got tired of it never ending, so i stopped with the ex. It happened when i stood up to her for sending me mixed messages. When i did this, she blew up at me, and i knew it was toxic.

I don't speak to her anymore. We haven't said a word to each other since the breakup.

The whole new memory thing definitely makes sense.

I'm happy you got past it yourself. Hopefully when I move it'll help make the new memories.