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100% my dad. I have absolutely no doubt, and he has all the traits.

When his first wife separated from him, he took a baseball bat and tried breaking into her house. Smashed all her windows and such, and totally demolished her car with it. That's what pushed her to divorce him.

With mom, we lived on my grandparent's property. And he always threatened that if she left him that he'd kill her parents and hang himself in their balcony. He'd always beat me and mom too. Tried to murder us one night too.

When he was in his early 20's, before he married his first wife. He got mad at his brother and pulled a pistol on him. His brother ran and dad chased him down shooting at him. He ended up shooting him in the calf and if his other brothers hadn't reached him first probably would've killed him. They never reported it or anything.

Dad never cares about those around him unless he can use them to benefit himself. It's always been that no matter who you are, if you cross him, he will make you pay. And "crossing him" is something as pointless as disagreeing with him or not doing what he commands.

He can easily be friendly and kind to charm his friends, but it's all an act. He's a cruel, mean spirited, and hateful man. One of the most selfish people I've ever met.

There's one thing he did that's so vile that I won't ever give details about it.