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KanWan posted...

My grandfather is this way after cancer. I think hes shrewd now just because he wants to isolate himself while dealing with the reality of the hurt of not being around. It sucks. I empathize with you. Its not easy.

Though, I will say, someone asking me a hundred questions about how to do something is annoying as all heck lol theres nothing wrong with that, I know a person asking those questions simply cares. Ive definitely had to tell people listen, just pick a way, and if its not that way Ill tell ya and I promise it wont be this weird and awkward thing trust yourself, I trust you

Not sure if that plays out necessarily in your case, but its something to think about. Even if a person yells that its wrong, its good to be wrong to know whats right. An honest attempt is an honest attempt, yknow? I wouldnt want someone apologizing for giving a shit or walking away feeling like their intentions are somehow removed from the attempt.

I was so used to how I talked with her as a child out of habit and now I'm starting to think she secretly hated my ways and pretended to be OK with it. It's not a coincidence how the ways she speaks to me now is based on her mood and she never seemed to apologise about the way I am cautious but she does apologise on other small things when her mood changes to be nice. I just think she honestly doesn't like the caution and never did when I was young so that shows how good I am at knowing a person