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Glob posted...

I feel like if its hard for you, you probably didnt really have feelings for her beyond lust. If you actually value somebody as a person, I see no reason why you wouldnt want to be friends with them just because you think theyre attractive.

Plenty of my friends are attractive, but Im a happily married man. But even before that, it makes no sense for somebody not wanting to sleep with you being a dealbreaker for a friendship unless you never really wanted to be friends with them anyway.

This is tone deaf. You say "I'm happily married" but the guys posting are single. Totally different worlds. So it's easy for you to be friends with cute ladies, you aren't even looking. These guys don't want to see their 'object of lust' aka someone you wanna fuck and fall in love with?, running around with other men and pretend they are happy about it.

Shocker - they DONT just want to be friends. Duh. The appreciation for the individual comes after the instant animal attraction as you get to know them. You present it as if sexual attraction isn't respecting women for who they are as a human, miss me with that shit.