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ftatman posted...

Funny line! But in reality you should be down to earth, strike up a conversation about anything at all (how her day is going or something basic) then after you've chatted for a few mins and you're both feeling comfortable, ask if she wants to go to X venue at X time cos you're going and maybe she'd like to come along. If she's interested, she'll say yes or give you an alternative time/date if she's busy; if she's not interested, no harm done and you go about your day. If she says no, don't take it to heart, the chances are low so no big deal; if she says yes, see it as a bonus. Be cool.

Before you do, think to yourself "am i the type of person who would be worth her time and would I bring something to the relationship that she would benefit from" cos she'd be asking herself the same thing. You've got that initial moment and those couple of mins of chatting to convince her to take a punt. If you don't honestly believe you've got something she'd be interested in or would be worth her time, don't go for it.

And for those asking 'you'll never get anywhere if you never take a chance', i say this: you should be stacking the odds in your favour. Go to the gym, get a cool job, get a cool hobby, etc. You don't get anything in this life handed to you. Make yourself an attractive proposition to the best extent you can, then take gambles on the opportunities you think you stand of chance of actually winning.

Do all of that stuff to attract a cashier? Can she benefit him in a relationship?
You're putting girls on a pedestal.
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