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| Topic | Do you have any sympathy for someone who gets back into an abusive relationship? |
| Eevee-Trainer 07/18/17 6:12:58 PM #13: | "For example. They are in an abusive relationship for years. Cry about it for years. Don't take anyone's advice to get out for years. " Fuck "getting back into one" - this is when I lose sympathy for the person. You're in a bad situation but refuse to dig yourself out? You want my support and comfort but keep diving back into the same situations that make me use my time and energy to help you feel better? You want my help but you refuse to take it if it goes against staying in the relationship or whatever other misery you have? Then you can just fuck right off, I don't have time for your nonsense. I have cut ties with friends before who pull this shtick and have threatened to do so in other cases. I'm not some toy because if I'm helping you I care about you but only so far as you're also willing to help yourself; no amount of pretty words and comfort can help someone truly unwilling to get the help they need. --- Maybe I'll put something here one day. ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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