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| Topic | Best friend since childhood is to marry in the next year, it really upsets me... |
| Bandit_Keith 08/10/17 12:09:41 AM #38: | Personally, I'd never get married unless the tax breaks were that good. But your reasoning for being so upset and troubled by this makes no sense. You leaped to a very moronic conclusion and you're fretting about it instead of talking to your friend. I don't think you know how actual friends are around each other and how they speak to each other. The truth is he very may well have moved on, grown up, fallen in love and you're simply not close enough with him anymore to know how he feels about this person. Not everybody who is deeply in love shows it the way your opening post describes it. If you had spoken to him about this and he lead you to believe he wasn't madly in love and wanted to spend the rest of his life with her, then you'd be getting at least a few response that lined up with how you feel. But for the most part people see your behavior as childish and selfish. Because you've baselessly jumped to a conclusion and it makes no sense. To be clear, we are telling you that a reaction of thinking that he might not be getting married for the right reasons(or your reasons, which is another discussion all together) is quite asinine, unless you are leaving out a whole hell of a lot of the story. Which then begs the question of why you'd make the topic to begin with while leaving out pertinent details. Why did you make the topic, by the way? Because it's not like you often take CEs advice when you make topics. --- ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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