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| Topic | Gf has been pressuring me to propose |
| Romulox28 08/29/17 12:22:31 PM #49: | lww99 posted... I'm not trying to talk her out of it. Just trying to convey one of my bigger hesitations about it. eh that's kind of bullshit. i dont know your gf but most likely your girl doesnt want to get married because she just wants to have a giant super expensive party, she wants a lifelong commitment from her boyfriend. saying the cost of the (optional) reception is too high isnt really a good reason to not get married imo. it's like saying you don't want to graduate from college because you don't want to have a grad party lol. in two weeks i will be attending a wedding where the couple is getting married in a park and having their reception in a bar with homemade food. if you want the lifelong commitment aspect of marriage, you'll make the wedding work financially. the question is, do you want that level of commitment? This is not something that you can negotiate, this is pretty much the most important area of compatibility that adult couples need to have --- A Green Butter Alt http://i.imgur.com/LhwwG.gif ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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