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NeoShadowhen posted...

Okay. I think I have the whole picture now. You should proceed as follows:

- Breakdown and explain how you were being so blunt because you're genuinely concerned for her health. Cite something you dig up online about risks of obesity that you recently came across. Throw your daughter into the mix while you're at it.

- Explain how you're equally concerned about your own health. Commit yourself to wanting to adopt a healthy lifestyle with her, including diet and exercise. Have a stick up your ass about maintaining this lifestyle from this day foward.

- Try not to be so blunt in the future. Tact is useful. Get married to the new one and cut back on communicating with your ex outside of things having to do directly with your daughter.

- Punch your brother in the dick for fucking around on his wife. Cheating wrecked your last marriage. It might as well have been him plowing your ex.

Best of luck.

Good post.

My brother and his wife have their own relationship. Different things work for different people. I dont' condone it but it's not my place to judge them.

I wrote her an email all morning and I'm gonna proof it one more time for accuracy and send it. I'm not taking the healthy approach on the physical sense. I'm taking the health approach from the "happy" sense".

We all have the right to be happy and we owe it to ourselves to discuss and issue that keeps either of us from being happy.

I'm all for compromise but she needs to know how I feel and what will make me happy and vice versa.
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We make men without chests and expect from them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. - C.S. Lewis