LogFAQs > #886319552

I'm not a "Chad", I'm average looking, and other than being 6'5", there's nothing exceptional about me. That said, I have never had any issues with hooking up. I'm in my mid-30's and I still get attention on a regular basis, both from women and men (sorry, guys, I'm flattered, but no). I'm happily married, so I don't do anything about it, nor do I seek it out.

I think that the reason for this is attitude. I'm confident, but not a douchebag about it. I don't give anyone too much attention, I'm just doing my own thing, and that seems to reel them in. When I was dating, I didn't fixate on one woman, and I didn't take it personally when a girl wasn't into me. When a girl was into me, I would show interest back, but I didn't fall all over myself making her the center of the universe. I had my own things going on, and she was welcome to follow, if she so chose.

From the age of 15 until today (21 years), I have not gone longer than a month without sex, with the exception of a year that I shut myself away from dating at all, after I divorced my first wife, and 45 days in jail in 2015.
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