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| Topic | I feel like girls I ask to hang out regularly take that as me asking them out |
| fishy071 03/16/22 1:45:16 AM #6: | I sometimes do that because I've encountered quite a few guys who don't seem to know the difference between friends and lovers or hanging out and dating. Not all guys are as smart as you. When someone asks to hang out, I usually take it to mean friends hanging out. There have been times when I was busy and couldn't hang out. However, there have been guys who then complained to other people that I refused his invitation for a date and that I didn't say I have no interest in them. I was baffled. I eventually told the guys that they had to say it was a date, or I was going to take it as friends hanging out. I also learned from friends that some guys even call it a date when they are hanging out with several guys and girls. In other words, if there are girls present, they consider a date. Mensis posted... Say as friends. You act like your some super straight forward dude so why you cant figure this out? I like that idea. In the past, I've asked, "As friends?" For hanging out, you could also tell the girl that she could bring her friends along, and you could bring some friends with you, too. --- "You don't need a reason to help people." (Zidane Tribal of FFIX) ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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