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Harpie posted...

You have to believe that your life can change, or it never will. This is a self fulfilling prophecy. You need to actively change your life and have hope. Youre only a lost cause if you believe it to be so.

Youre the only one that can save you.

I've tried this multiple times, even going as far as getting several books on it. Positivity and optimism just don't do anything for me when there are too many objective variables in my life which effectively doom me.

CactusCat posted...

constantly being down in the dumps and throwing pity parties for yourself will only continue to make things worse.

I'm aware. The problem is I can't stay positive, have nothing to be happy about, don't like anything about myself, and don't have the financial means of living a happy, safe life.