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TheGoldenEel posted...

i mean, I give her breaks in the evening but it isnt that much time for herself before she goes to bed

so Ill have him until like midnight or one and then shes co-sleeping with him (which is the only thing that worked for us sleeping)

Ive told her she can go out with friends or whatever in the evening and Id be happy to watch but shes so exhausted from the day that she doesnt want to

I can relate to that. Im so tired after a full day of work and then baby. By the time shes in bed at 8 Im in bed too. Ive had no energy to even watch a show or anything. But I do try and go to happy hour with my friends once a month and try and get out of the house a bit on weekends. Im suspecting that her reason is more so to cover up her anxiety about leaving him for a bit. I could be wrong. Ive known other moms like that. They dont go anywhere because they are terrified of leaving their babies for a few hours.