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I mean, I was much less legalistic on my first marriage and it also screwed me over which directly makes me more legalistic now. I wouldn't call that baggage as my partner is fine with it.

I think you have two different things going on here

1. She wants you to sign a contract to borrow money after having financial issues with previous partners. I don't think there is anything wrong with this
2. She is abrasive to you when you express displeasure about how she feels above. That is a much bigger issue imo. I would probably try to get to the bottom of that one