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GrandConjuraton posted...

Marrying actually does very little to improve anything.

If you believe that, then you shouldn't be marrying.

GrandConjuraton posted...

And yes, it does count. I consider him my soul mate and can't imagine a more perfect match, considering how we're identical in most ways (which is important to me, considering how relatibility is a lense I filter most things through, and how domineering I can be in regards to getting people to agree with my opinions on subjects I consider important); we were even born less than a day apart. The only complaint I have is our inability to bring things together, but that's solely because neither of us has any money. I have no income at all and his only income in disability (he has MS), so we couldn't support ourselves.

So you have never even met him? You can't tell if someone is perfect for you with just online chats and even facecams. Even if you have similar situations. Tho I would say your better match would be with someone who can uplift you, instead of keeping you company in misery. Are you sure you didn't just latch onto someone because they showed you kindness? Rushing into relationships and especially an engagement is a recipe for disaster.