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MrDrMan posted...

My half brothers grandmother died last week. He hasnt really spoke to anyone since. Is he an asshole for ceasing communication? Does he owe people explanations? Fuck no.

Why you doing this man? You're trying so hard to villainize me for just making an intial statement that didn't cover every anecdotal experience. Somehow getting to a point where Im now somehow telling your half brother he's an asshole because he was in mourning and probably couldn't think of much else. Which, sorry for the loss, it's never easy. Im sure that girl understood once explained.

But, it doesn't mean you gotta throw me under the bus due to frustrations with anecdotal experiences. You could of just as easily read my post and assumed I would be sympathetic to your brothers situation and my statement wouldn't apply to him. You decided to make me the bad guy without any further investigation.

We all individually choose how the people we pass by and never learn nuance about get perceived. I personally like giving people the benefit of the doubt where I can. Cause, being a lil naive at times is worth the price of feeling more part of the community of humanity to me. It makes for a less suffocating world. Just ask a follow up question and learn if you're initial assumption is accurate or not.