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So I have a friend and her birthday is coming up. I wasnt too sure what to get her, but she has told me so many times how she wanted to try this one restaurant (Ive been there numerous times) so I said, all right Ill book a reservation for us and that can be your birthday present.

Shes cool with it. We hang out a few times during the week leading up to the day were set to go. The night before were out and about having fun, but shes texting a guy she says she has to tell about our plans so he doesnt find out from someone else which to me makes no sense because who is gonna tell him? Why would anyone tell him even? Anyhow.

So I tease her a bit saying I thought yall werent dating, why you gotta tell him? and she says theyre not and she has no interest (which I know is a lie). I ask her then if she wants to cancel tomorrows plans just let me know now because there is something else I can do as well, I just need the heads up. She assures me were set to go with our plans.

Next morning, Im up getting ready when I get the text hey buddy, I dont feel too good. I ask if everything is all right and ask again, so you wanna call it off today? I still have time to tell my other friends I can go with them.

Again, no no, were going. Im looking forward to it. Okay cool, I continue getting ready. An hour later as Im set to walk out the door to pick her up.Hey buddy, I dont think Im gonna make it.
I say well thats unfortunate, hope you feel better. At this point the other thing I couldve done has passed its time where I couldve went. whatever.

An hour later she is posting on her social media hanging out with the dude she had to tell about our plans. I did petty comment glad youre feeling better which was probably not the right thing to do.

So she ditched our plans at the last second which screwed me out of being able to go do something else. I wouldnt have been as bothered if one, she wouldve just cancelled the night before or even earlier that morning when I specifically asked if we were shutting it down or if she wouldve just said Im sorry at any point in any of her back out messages.

Im not romantically attracted to her in anyway so its not a lover scorned type scenario. I just feel friends should give each other more respect. I was very short with her when she reached out the next day acting like nothing happened and I havent spoken to her since (3 days now). We used to speak every day and hangout a few times a week.

She finally said something to me yesterday. Youre an asshole. Thats what she said. I asked why I was an asshole and she said because you havent talked to me. I asked if she could think why I havent and she said, I dont care why. Youre an asshole for doing it. I asked if she wanted to talk about it, nah Im good over here I have plenty people to give my attention to.

I dont even know wtf that is supposed to mean. Another friend thinks shes interested in me and knows its not mutual so shes acting out because shes mad. I dont know.

Either way, am I wrong for being upset she cancelled with no notice despite being asked multiple times if she wanted to nix the plans to go do something else? Or am I just an asshole whos time isnt important?