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TopicAm I wrong in this situation?
OneGrumpyUncle
10/24/22 8:43:31 AM
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She's a manipulator who is pissed because you got smart and stopped taking her shit when she bailed on. You were her back-up plans in case what she really wanted to do, hang out with the other guy, didn't happen. She's wants to keep you around because you are a comfort area for her and she feels like she can rely on you to make her feel fulfilled when she needs attention. She will come back around in a time because she will need her fix and at that time you will need to decide what is best for you. Do you allow yourself to be in that position, do you set boundaries for yourself and your actions, or do you just cut her our entirely. You have to decide. When she comes back around it will probably be under the guise of wither she is sorry that you guys are fighting blah blah blah..., or that she really needs to talk because she needs a friend right now because blah blah blah... She will do one of these things because she is relying on you following the status quo of fulling her need for attention under the guise of being a "good" friend. Again its up to you what you want to do but in the moment it will probably be difficult to recognize you are being manipulated after so long of having it done.

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