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Topic | YeOldDuncan is SUSPENDED! |
Oubliettes 10/25/22 6:30:41 PM #129: | darkmaian23 posted... Your thesis earlier was that a way of handing out of control behavior is to ignore it. I have literally never seen him post anything that wasn't abusive or inflammatory. He has allegedly sent women on this site creepy, unsolicited messages and been banned before because of it. Which is more reasonable, everyone putting Duncan's endless stream of accounts on ignore over and over again, or him being permanently banned? Permanently removing him from the site makes using it safer and more pleasant, and would deny him an outlet for more toxic behavior and its reinforcement. Who's going to ban him? You? There haven't been permanent KoS style bans here in like a decade, and as I've said, the only one with the ability to make that decision is Allen. I haven't advocated for tolerance in the slightest, and suggested you block and report him as you feel necessary. My argument hasn't had anything to do with what Duncan does or should be allowed to. My argument has been towards the users that engage with him and how they choose to do so. You seem to suggest that few if any of his interactions with other users on this website are positive, which would reason that negative reinforcement is at least a partial motivator towards his continual return to the board. Maybe it's the attention, maybe it's a desire to prove something, I don't know. But if he's done this for years, it's pretty clear that the behavior isn't going to change by antagonizing him more. You made a big point about self-control, and that's a two way street. If you can't help but get so pissed at what a mid 30s dude, who is at least self-proclaimed ASD, who lives with and gets grounded by his mother, whose sphere of influence likely doesn't extend much further than his bedroom door, has to say, that you are literally incapable of just blocking, reporting and moving on, maybe a bit of introspection about self-control is due. Needlessly antagonizing or intentionally goading what seems to be a significantly impaired individual when you could just block and report for literally the same end result is pretty fuckin gross in my opinion, and to be quite frank I really don't care if that pisses you off or not. --- Your anus can't read. - Heartomaton ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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