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MabusIncarnate posted...

It should only matter if you are super religious and believe in all that marriage before sex crap. Otherwise it's not some spiritual and special thing for a lot of people, if it came down to it and I still was a virgin, I'd rather pay for it and experience it once instead of waiting forever for the right one that may never come.

Yeah I just think that what Khlavic is saying is that if someone was willing to "bully" you for being a virgin, you going out and paying money to have sex and then going "Ha I showed you, I paid a sex worker and now I have officially had sex" isn't going to make them say "oh my apologies dear sir I thought you still hadn't had it".

Tbh the whole idea of virginity as a proxy for being a "loser" is dumb anyway. My roommate throughout college was Mormon and thus didn't have sex but was far more successful then the loser we knew who had had sex once but still was 95% an incel.