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TopicWhy do people dislike talking about kids/marriage on a first date?
Proto_Spark
02/17/23 3:57:27 PM
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cuttin_in_farm posted...
But if kids is a deal breaker, which it is for many, why waste time by not declaring long term intentions?

This stuff is immediately advertised on dating app profiles.

Addressing topics like that when you're basically still like "trying to know" someone can also be a big deal breaker too by pushing too hard on something that hasn't even been built yet.

Kids are something to come up when you've been dating for a while and can like, say you're in a relationship.

Dating apps can get around this because you aren't actually interacting with each other yet. The question loses a lot of tension when its put on the level of your favourite colour, but that's not really something you can do in a direct interaction.
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