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| Topic | Why do people dislike talking about kids/marriage on a first date? |
| NoxObscuras 02/17/23 4:07:32 PM #12: | cuttin_in_farm posted... But if kids is a deal breaker, which it is for many, why waste time by not declaring long term intentions?Because the first date is more to feel each other out. Before the first date, you're literally strangers. So you slowly get to know each other and build up your comfort/trust over several dates. Asking about that (marriage especially) so soon gives the impression that you're rushing things. Like you're saying that those are important deal breakers. But why is it so important that you need to discuss on date #1? You're trying to cover every single thing on your very first date? You're not going to be able to figure out if you want to spend your whole life with this person after meeting them for an hour. So why not save some of that for dates 2 or 3? --- PSN - NoxObscuras Z490 | i9-10900K | EVGA 3080 FTW3 Ultra | 32GB DDR4 3600 | 4TB SSD ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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