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Topic	Why do people dislike talking about kids/marriage on a first date?
Proto_Spark 02/17/23 4:08:29 PM #14:	cuttin_in_farm posted... Why? Because an honest conversation about having kids or getting married is something with a lot of social pressure attached to it. This makes it a hard conversation to have right out of the gate. Dating apps can get around this because its more indirect. If you're on Tinder or whatever and say you want kids, you aren't really telling someone specific - you're basically just shouting into the void what you want, and looking for someone else (also shouting into the void) who wants the same things. Its much less of a conversation you're having with each other this way, and thus loses a lot of the social pressure. <cite>Proto_Spark posted [p:971634375] in Why do peo... [t:80351674]...</cite> <quote>cuttin_in_farm posted... </cite><quote>Why?</quote>Because an honest conversation about having kids or getting married is something with a lot of social pressure attached to it. This makes it a hard conversation to have right out of the gate.Dating apps can get around this because its more indirect. If you're on Tinder or whatever and say you want kids, you aren't really telling someone specific - you're basically just shouting into the void what you want, and looking for someone else (also shouting into the void) who wants the same things. Its much less of a conversation you're having with each other this way, and thus loses a lot of the social pressure.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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