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Noname12 posted...

And the internet proves itself time after time. Its a lot easier for you guys to just say divorce him! You should she divorced him already! Its not an easy task. You basically cease your current lifestyle, leave the person you love, and married. Then, realize your baby is now going to be gone half the time.

theres so many factors that play into this

Every time a potential client has said something along these lines to me, I sigh.

I then talk to them 6 months, 1 year, 2 years (etc.) later and now the situation is worse. Now the stakes are higher. Now they've spent two more years contributing to a retirement account of which 50% is going to go to the spouse they hate while that spouse has contributed little to nothing. Now their spouse has racked up debt. Now their spouse has a new partner that is subsidizing their new lifestyle. Now the kids are older and more aware.

A situation like TC's is a lost cause. It was lost in 2017. Every year that passes is just more damage to TC before the inevitable separation.