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Punished_Blinx posted...

I'm not saying that it isn't the answer. But even if it is that's not going to be the end of the problems. Whether they're together or not they have a kid. There's a lot of shit to figure out.

I know a couple of people going through rough break ups with kids. It's the end of a major problem and the beginning of many new ones. Figuring out custody arrangements and explaining to a toddler that Daddy isn't going to be around as much anymore is just heartbreaking shit to deal with.

Overall posts on here shouldn't be influencing her opinion either way. She'll figure it out with the people who matter a lot more. Like I said she deserves better than this.

TC is a grown ass woman. She'll come to her own conclusions regardless of what any of us say.
But the idea that people shouldn't influence opinions from inquiries based on someone's real life isn't consistent. People are influenced by second opinions all the time. People have various reasons as to why they open up on the internet about stuff like this instead of friends and family.

I have enough faith in grown adults to not exclusively be taking cues from what strangers tell you. I honestly think the insistence that you can't receive anonymous advice without coming to a conclusion you didn't want to is belittling the capabilities of the person in question.