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| Topic | Caught my husband on the phone with another woman last night |
| Vayu_The_End 06/14/23 10:06:36 PM #216: | MrResetti posted... You're lumping everything into the frame you know without considering the possibility that continued couples therapy could have a positive outcome Therapy being floated exclusively out of fear of a partner leaving you after you got caught doing the bad thing is unlikely to lead to good outcomes. Therapy isn't a cure all dude. I am WELL aware of that. It always gets floated after being caught doing the bad thing, it happens, you see short term improvements, then when the relationship seems "safe" they revert back to their old habits and the cycle repeats. For therapy to be effective, the people in question have to WANT to get better. Being caught cheating, then immediately floating therapy is not a desire to get better, it's a desire to keep your partner from leaving you. --- "Think about the kids!" Seems to always be followed about by doing the worst possible thing for the kids. ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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