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Topic	Caught my husband on the phone with another woman last night
MrResetti 06/14/23 10:09:58 PM #218:	Vayu_The_End posted... Therapy being floated exclusively out of fear of a partner leaving you after you got caught doing the bad thing is unlikely to lead to good outcomes. Therapy isn't a cure all dude. I am WELL aware of that. It always gets floated after being caught doing the bad thing, it happens, you see short term improvements, then when the relationship seems "safe" they revert back to their old habits and the cycle repeats. For therapy to be effective, the people in question have to WANT to get better. Being caught cheating, then immediately floating therapy is not a desire to get better, it's a desire to keep your partner from leaving you. You're always right, got it. In that case I change my original post to To CE! <cite>MrResetti posted [p:974165014] in Caught my ... [t:80477286]...</cite> <quote>Vayu_The_End posted... </cite><quote>Therapy being floated exclusively out of fear of a partner leaving you after you got caught doing the bad thing is unlikely to lead to good outcomes.Therapy isn't a cure all dude. I am WELL aware of that. It always gets floated after being caught doing the bad thing, it happens, you see short term improvements, then when the relationship seems "safe" they revert back to their old habits and the cycle repeats. For therapy to be effective, the people in question have to WANT to get better. Being caught cheating, then immediately floating therapy is not a desire to get better, it's a desire to keep your partner from leaving you.</quote>You're always right, got it.In that case I change my original post toTo CE!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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