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TopicIs 34 and 22 too big of an age gap?
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07/19/23 3:22:39 AM
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Is it illegal? Obviously not.

Should it be illegal? I don't think so.

Is it a good idea? Probably not. A lot of people target younger people because they think their immaturity can let them feel superior and/or manipulate the younger partner.

If it's not that, my observation is that most of the time it's a situation where the older person is stuck in an immature mindset. At first they're on the same wavelength, but eventually the younger person will mature and get tired of the older person's bullshit real fast.

I knew several girls in college who had relationships like that. They all ended badly. One of them had a wife and family he wasn't telling the girl about... I remember one of them was dating a 40 year old when she was 20 and saying, "It's amazing, I'm finally dating someone at the same maturity level as me!" Six month later she was telling us how she didn't know what she ever saw in that man-child lol.

Anyway I think they should have every right to date but I wouldn't recommend it. Once she hits 30 it won't matter, but 12 years is still a huge gap at those ages.

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