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I've had success maybe because I'm decent looking but I have still had some of the same feelings of hopelessness, impression I was unwanted, etc. Mostly because I tried to be the best possible bachelor in every way, groom myself, workout, stylish clothes. If there was a thing that was said to make you more attractive to women, I did it.

I think what killed my drive was how low I had to drop my standards in order to succeed. Forget ever being with a gorgeous girl, let alone an average girl. Heck a chubby girl sounds like a dream come true. I had to scrape the bottom of the barrel and only get go for the most obese women and that was after forking out money for tinder plus and swiping right on almost every girl for months and getting rejected or ghosted dozens of times. Even then it felt like gambling and my chances were about as good as the lottery, so I only managed to attract somebody once every 1-2 years.

I have a long distance girlfriend at the moment but that doesn't mean I don't forget how difficult it was to get there. It shouldn't be this hard just to get I to a relationship, I feel for guys who are socially awkward like myself. I envy how easy it is for women to attract interest no matter how flawed they are.