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CoyoteTheGreat posted...

Different people place different things at different places on their list. For me, whether a girl is trans or not doesn't make a fucking difference. It is absolutely meaningless because I see trans women as just women. For other men, that might be the most important thing. For other men, maybe the lack of fertility thing is the real deal breaker There are women out there that are okay with trans guys, but will not want to date someone with a micro-penis. There are people out there who a person's sexual history is the most important thing. There are some people who what is in (Or rather, not in) someone's checking account is going to be the deal breaker. You can never know what is going to be the deal breaker unless you sit down talk to someone.

At the end of the day, there is no order of operations here. Different people have different priorities. There are lots of things that you probably should disclose, but that a lot of people won't just put in their profile because they are embarrassing or even just for their personal safety. That's why you know, you have a first date and talk about the things that are important to you.

See, you not having a preference makes me think you simply don't understand how large of a deal it is for many people, which seems to be the biggest disconnect in these discussions. Some people seem to find it baffling that someone can be attracted to someone and have that attraction disappear, but someone's gender identity isn't really relevant to which biological sex someone is comfortable being intimate with.