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Jiek_Fafn posted...

Its part of my personality. So it works in our case.

My vows were similar. It was a speech about vowing to create magic for her and relaying a story about seeing a magic show with my family as a kid. That moment made me realize that the magic behind magic wasn't in the show itself. It was all of the effort that goes into the set up just to make someone happy in the future. At the end I revealed that the heartfelt story I used to illustrate this point never happened. It was all a set up. It was like inception.

But also there's more. The speech about the childhood experience is stolen from a niche tv show. I plan to reveal this by coincidentally watching that episode in front of her on our 10th anniversary to further illustrate the importance of a good set up.

Lordt lol glad you found someone into all that

Xenogears15 posted...

Immediate. I was honestly thinking of proposing to her myself at that point, just hadn't found the right time or the ring. She said "fuck that" and did it on her own volition, so I just gave her a yes right back.

Haha ok, since you were already kinda wanting to do it, that sounds really cute.

bsp77 posted...

When we went on an attempted vacation to Nova Scotia. We had two days of cancelations, delays and layovers. We eventually gave up when stuck in Montreal, so we said "fuck it" and had a fun 3 day vacation in Montreal. We never once got upset with each other during all that stress and found a way to adapt and have fun. I know from experience that that is rare, so I knew for sure then. We were engaged two months later. Getting married next month. Plus, my daughters really like her.

I can see how seeing how they travel and how they are under stress (and especially traveling while under stress) could help be a deciding factor. Those things are important. Im glad your girls are happy about it!