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Bride warned groom several dozen times -- in my presence -- if he smashed the cake in her face they would have issues. Using phrases like "I am *not* kidding" or "I am *completely* serious."

Groom was a good 'ol boy type. His friends found out about his bride's one stipulation about the wedding. She was flexible on a lot of other things, but no f*****g cake-smashing. They started making whip-cracking sounds, teasing him that he was "whipped" and needed to Put His Foot Down And Show Her Who's Boss.

Yeah, he smashed the cake in her face.

She had it annulled.

No one should ever smash cake into their new bride/groom's face. Feeding the cake is symbolic of your vow to care for one another.

My wife and I didn't smash cake into each other's faces. We were married for 17 years and though we did separate eventually, we did so with

No fight
No custody conflict
No court
No lawyers
No anger
No stress

We co-parent our son, and still travel together, and get along great.

Don't make a mockery of your vows.