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Glob posted...

1. High school virgins arent incels. But yes, they often lack the maturity to understand that talking to opposite sex is just the same as talking to the same sex. Cant blame them, theyre lacking in experience. Whats your excuse?
2. Friendships and relationships are not completely different things. Friendship is a type of relationship. Being conventionally attractive may give an advantage when talking to women, but if youre putting yourself out there and having no success at all, its incredibly unlikely that your looks are the biggest hurdle. Women arent generally that fussy if they like you enough.
3. There are different types of sexual relationships too. Whats your point?
4. Youre arguing against a point that I never made. Im not claiming that women will leave you if you dont have sufficient friends. Im saying that many incels are also lacking in friends and that suggests that their attitude, demeanour or social skills are lacking, which would explain why women arent interested in them.

Both are completely different. Men generally talk to other men about certain stuff, or bond with other men with certain stuff because they go through the same things or experience the same stuff. Both genders go through and experience life completely differently in societal aspects and economic aspects.

Actually, they completely are. A casual friendship is easy to have. And thats using friendship in the loosest way possible in terms of being able to have a good conversation or talk about common things in the location you are at(job/event/friend group)

Dating/relationship is different. You're not competing for friendship. You are however, competing in the dating world when there are tons of men trying to talk to the same person, and the other individual being more selective due to the plethora of options available. Said options lead to high standards. Dating sites and apps are an example of this. In which all the men are essentially competing with each other and need to essentially be the best or one of the best.

Furthermore, I'm not going to get rejected for being "short" for a friend group. Maybe made fun of, but being a friend of sam isnt the same as being in a relationship with sam. But in a relationship or dating: It's preferential and often mandatory to be a certain height. Along with having a certain level of income. Certain features(not being skinny or not being buff), having hair, etc. In other words, there are high standards for dating/relationships. Not much so for simple friendships

suggests that their attitude, demeanour or social skills are lacking, which would explain why women arent interested in them.

Why do people continuously try to ignore that income level, or physical appearance or "types" are also factors for being rejected? Yes those you listed are factors, but so are other things. Or just people have preferences as well.