Seriously though, if you have to think this hard about it you're having doubts, and feeling guilt. That guilt WILL skyrocket once you go through with it.
It would be different if you weren't feeling much right now while thinking about it. Then I'd seriously recommend you do whatever you want.
However, from the way you're posting, I'm guessing it's gonna eat at you. So you probably shouldn't do it. Is it worth feeling like that just to get laid? Let me give you some advice.
Go j*** off, then think about it. I'm serious. You'll have your answer within the hour.
This. You feeling guilty even thinking about it makes you a good person. Good people can't cheat, it'll fuck you up emotionally and slowly erode your relationship.
I wouldn't say it makes you a bad person at all.
Actually cheating on someone you love and who loves you? You're not a good person if you do that. I'm not sure if you misunderstood me though, I was saying TC IS a good person for feeling guilty about even the thought.
No, I know what you meant. I just don't think it's that black and white. Shit happens, and I wouldn't automatically say TC is a bad person if he did this. One bad decision doesn't make someone a bad person.
TIL: Cheating doesn't make you a bad person
I mean, if that's what you want to take away from it then you do you. ---