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Topic	Women don't know what the f*** they want
DrProfessor 10/06/17 8:00:04 PM #32:	OhhhJa posted... DrProfessor posted... OhhhJa posted... In my experience, I've found that guys who say this are usually at fault. Generally, they have a chip on their shoulder and preconceived notions and misconceptions about dating in general. Girls don't like assholrs. They just like dudes who are confident and interesting. If you start dating a girl with the idea that you need to be an asshole you will fail every time Ive never gone out of my way to be a dick tho. Infact I have the opposite problem, a general lack of confidence. Ultimately I end up being too nice and get taken for granted. That's where not being too available comes into play. Don't be a dick and cancel dates but also don't cancel stuff you have planned just to go on a date with her because that can be a sign of desperation. But really, the main thing is don't be in your own head too much. Most of the time when guys screw up they're being too neurotic. Don't overthink things. Just enjoy yourself and take things slow. You don't have to treat her like she's the one right when you start dating Thats actually pretty good advice. Theres definitely a balancing act to it that Ive yet to master. But look at all the women that fall for terrible dudes and get abused, cheated on, used and thrown away. Generally speaking, a confident scumbag has a way better chance of ending up with the girl than a good guy. And that in itself is a problem. --- I have a doctorate in professoring. <cite>DrProfessor posted [p:887948390] in Women don&... [t:75851824]...</cite> <quote><cite>OhhhJa posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DrProfessor posted...</cite> <quote><cite>OhhhJa posted...</cite> <quote>In my experience, I've found that guys who say this are usually at fault. Generally, they have a chip on their shoulder and preconceived notions and misconceptions about dating in general. Girls don't like assholrs. They just like dudes who are confident and interesting. If you start dating a girl with the idea that you need to be an asshole you will fail every time</quote>Ive never gone out of my way to be a dick tho. Infact I have the opposite problem, a general lack of confidence. Ultimately I end up being too nice and get taken for granted.</quote> That's where not being too available comes into play. Don't be a dick and cancel dates but also don't cancel stuff you have planned just to go on a date with her because that can be a sign of desperation. But really, the main thing is don't be in your own head too much. Most of the time when guys screw up they're being too neurotic. Don't overthink things. Just enjoy yourself and take things slow. You don't have to treat her like she's the one right when you start dating</quote>Thats actually pretty good advice. Theres definitely a balancing act to it that Ive yet to master. But look at all the women that fall for terrible dudes and get abused, cheated on, used and thrown away. Generally speaking, a confident scumbag has a way better chance of ending up with the girl than a good guy. And that in itself is a problem. --- I have a doctorate in professoring.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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