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Topic	My crush just got back together with her ex, and I'm so conflicted.
TheCyborgNinja 11/18/17 8:07:07 PM #48:	OmegaTomHank posted... SmokeMassTree posted... Yeah man you're not gonna fuck her. If you don't fuck a girl within a month of meeting her it's never going to happen. Decide if you want her as a friend and only a friend. If not stop talking to her for your own sake. the hell? lol He's not totally wrong...... Aside from some devoutly religious virgins-until-marriage who actually stick to their guns, this is certainly plausible, even if only metaphorically in many cases. Women will either consider you a sexual option or they won't. If something happens to occur later, consider it good luck. The problem is that human nature creates its own set of roadblocks via "who you like, but who likes you back". I don't believe in BS like "the friendzone" resulting from a botched encounter. Those people weren't getting laid anyway. With sexual attraction will come additional chances, as long as you're not an absolutely horrible person to be around. I've been on both ends of the spectrum... From a hopeless loser desperate for anyone to date me to five girls fighting for my affection at the same time (while putting up with my moody, sometimes-oblivious ass). It sucks when your crush doesn't like you, a lot, but most people will crush on somebody who crushes back eventually. It's a numbers game. As many romantic failures as I've endured, it only made things easier. You're either the guy willing to lose the friendship and possibly get something serious out of it or the one longing for more but not really trying to get it. Being rejected feels awkward, but at least you can hold your head up high knowing that you tried. It sounds like she's just not into you, but you're clearly unsatisfied with the present arrangement anyway. --- "message parlor" ? do you mean the post office ? - SlayerX888 <cite>TheCyborgNinja posted [p:890648023] in My crush j... [t:76003117]...</cite> <quote><cite>OmegaTomHank posted...</cite> <quote><cite>SmokeMassTree posted...</cite> <quote>Yeah man you're not gonna fuck her. If you don't fuck a girl within a month of meeting her it's never going to happen. Decide if you want her as a friend and only a friend. If not stop talking to her for your own sake.</quote> the hell? lol</quote> He's not totally wrong...... Aside from some devoutly religious virgins-until-marriage who actually stick to their guns, this is certainly plausible, even if only metaphorically in many cases. Women will either consider you a sexual option or they won't. If something happens to occur later, consider it good luck. The problem is that human nature creates its own set of roadblocks via "who you like, but who likes you back". I don't believe in BS like "the friendzone" resulting from a botched encounter. Those people weren't getting laid anyway. With sexual attraction will come additional chances, as long as you're not an absolutely horrible person to be around. I've been on both ends of the spectrum... From a hopeless loser desperate for anyone to date me to five girls fighting for my affection at the same time (while putting up with my moody, sometimes-oblivious ass). It sucks when your crush doesn't like you, a lot, but most people will crush on somebody who crushes back eventually. It's a numbers game. As many romantic failures as I've endured, it only made things easier. You're either the guy willing to lose the friendship and possibly get something serious out of it or the one longing for more but not really trying to get it. Being rejected feels awkward, but at least you can hold your head up high knowing that you tried. It sounds like she's just not into you, but you're clearly unsatisfied with the present arrangement anyway. --- "message parlor" ? do you mean the post office ? - SlayerX888</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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