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Topic	What's so bad dating a trans woman anyways?
thanosibe 11/19/17 12:27:52 PM #172:	COVxy posted... thanosibe posted... s0nicfan posted... thanosibe posted... TC.....why's it so important that people date a transgendered person? I'm not trying to be a dick. But I've never understood the need to be concerned about who people enter relationship with and why. I've only ever been concerned with who I entered a relationship with. TC is trans, and thus has a vested interest in convincing people that it's a viable option. I'm heterosexual and I don't have vested interest in convincing people gals are the most viable opinion. Shit I don't even tell my own boys that. I mean, it's moreover about actually being accepted as your identity. If you sit down and probe people who refuse to consider ever dating a transwoman, you end up finding that the vast majority of them just don't consider transwomen women. Dating or not dating a transgendered person has zero to do with accepting them as people. I don't have to date a guy first to be sure I'm accepting of him. Treating any person with respect and dignity is more telling of being accepting than what gender a person dates. I have nothing against transgendered people, even though I've only known two. And one in hindsight when I realized when I was older, at a younger age I knew nothing about them. There's not some social checklist of demographic of people a person needs to got through to weed out the unlikely dating canidates. Just go for what you like and know that everyone else does to. --- I think I need a drink. Almost everybody does only they don't know it. -- Charles Bukowski <cite>thanosibe posted [p:890680421] in What's so ... [t:76004488]...</cite> <quote><cite>COVxy posted...</cite> <quote><cite>thanosibe posted...</cite> <quote><cite>s0nicfan posted...</cite> <quote><cite>thanosibe posted...</cite> <quote>TC.....why's it so important that people date a transgendered person? I'm not trying to be a dick. But I've never understood the need to be concerned about who people enter relationship with and why. I've only ever been concerned with who I entered a relationship with.</quote> TC is trans, and thus has a vested interest in convincing people that it's a viable option.</quote>I'm heterosexual and I don't have vested interest in convincing people gals are the most viable opinion. Shit I don't even tell my own boys that.</quote> I mean, it's moreover about actually being accepted as your identity. If you sit down and probe people who refuse to consider ever dating a transwoman, you end up finding that the vast majority of them just don't consider transwomen women.</quote>Dating or not dating a transgendered person has zero to do with accepting them as people. I don't have to date a guy first to be sure I'm accepting of him. Treating any person with respect and dignity is more telling of being accepting than what gender a person dates. I have nothing against transgendered people, even though I've only known two. And one in hindsight when I realized when I was older, at a younger age I knew nothing about them. There's not some social checklist of demographic of people a person needs to got through to weed out the unlikely dating canidates. Just go for what you like and know that everyone else does to. --- I think I need a drink. Almost everybody does only they don't know it. -- Charles Bukowski</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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