Yeah man you're not gonna fuck her. If you don't fuck a girl within a month of meeting her it's never going to happen.
Decide if you want her as a friend and only a friend. If not stop talking to her for your own sake.
the hell? lol
He's not totally wrong...... Aside from some devoutly religious virgins-until-marriage who actually stick to their guns, this is certainly plausible, even if only metaphorically in many cases. Women will either consider you a sexual option or they won't. If something happens to occur later, consider it good luck. The problem is that human nature creates its own set of roadblocks via "who you like, but who likes you back". I don't believe in BS like "the friendzone" resulting from a botched encounter. Those people weren't getting laid anyway. With sexual attraction will come additional chances, as long as you're not an absolutely horrible person to be around.
I've been on both ends of the spectrum... From a hopeless loser desperate for anyone to date me to five girls fighting for my affection at the same time (while putting up with my moody, sometimes-oblivious ass). It sucks when your crush doesn't like you, a lot, but most people will crush on somebody who crushes back eventually. It's a numbers game. As many romantic failures as I've endured, it only made things easier. You're either the guy willing to lose the friendship and possibly get something serious out of it or the one longing for more but not really trying to get it. Being rejected feels awkward, but at least you can hold your head up high knowing that you tried.
It sounds like she's just not into you, but you're clearly unsatisfied with the present arrangement anyway.
Are you joking me dude? Lmfao.
Ive literally met chicks at age 12 onto high school and then got with them 10 years later on an off chance.
There are tons of people, believe it or not who dont even have sex on the first date *gasp*. They wait as long as a month or two or sometimes even 6 while actively dating.
My most recent was completely platonic until a random one night stand 6 months after meeting her.
Your argument is completely bizarre and not founded in reality
My argument is bad? Fuck your dumber one. You're clearly not in the same situation as this guy. And I'm not talking "lifetimes apart" shit like "we met as kids then fucked 10 years later." Well, no shit, time apart is a huge factor in changing things. Being around the person all the time (like with the case being discussed) is not the same at all.
And no shit about "no sex on the first date," hence why I used the word metaphorical while partially agreeing with him. My point was people will take somebody into consideration as a sexual partner or not immediately... Fuck, my brain hurts just reading how poorly you misinterpreted then countered what I said. Not to mention that your life experience clearly isn't remotely relatable to TC's
Really? Because my last ONS was a coworker I was around for months.