LogFAQs > #894266410

Four years is a long time, but people sometimes go down different paths throughout the course of a relationship. You both clearly want different things, so it might be for the best if it has to end. It's not the easiest thing to do after being invested in someone for so many years and all the familiarity that comes with it. The prospect of moving on with life alone and eventually getting back into the dating game isn't great, but sometimes you have to make those tough decisions.

I mean, if you think you can still make it work or she changes her mind.. whatever. But like, the kid thing is another huge dealbreaker that you probably cannot compromise on. She's clearly trying to rush things based on whatever she thinks societal norms are or based on feelings, while you're doing what I would personally do and making sure you're well prepared for bringing a kid into this world. That just makes sense.
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